The unrequited love

Have you ever loved someone and they didn't love you back....mehn it hurts and can really break you down but physically and emotionally....that sense of not being enough and rejected by someone you hold so dearly in your heart,it really messes up your mind big time and you feel so little of your self after that.

Sometimes it's not just you but it's them,they didn't click with you and you weren't meant for them so you have to pick up your self,be strong and move on and I'll also advise that you channel that love back to yourself and love yourself as much as you want to be loved and you'll see Beautiful changes.

Not only will you have tons of people loving you but you'll also be contented with yourself, happiness will never leave and you'll never find another unrequited love again because anyone you'll love after loving yourself will definitely love you too cause when you love yourself, there's this aura and charisma that goes with you and the person you'll love will sense and feel it and the person will feel real when ever they're around you.

I've seen unrequited love kill some people emotionally,guys turned to pimps,or weren't able to make their feelings known again while girls turned into prostitutes or didn't trust anyone they meet again because they were rejected by someone they love and didn't wanna feel that unrequited love again....I don't see it as rejection though,I see it like the a didn't wanna lead you on, pretending they love you when they didn't....infact they did you great help by telling you how they really feel and you should respect them for that.

I know it's hard to move on after being turned down by someone you love but that shouldn't change you negatively, rather it should drive you into loving yourself and that would change you positively.

And you know one thing unique about self love? It attracts Beautiful people to you and not just beautiful people, people that will respect and love you just as you want to be loved.

I would share a short story about how a guy turned unrequited love into true love.

So this guy had a friend,a girl who was so close to him,he has being in love with her since the first day he saw her but they were so young then and before he could make his intentions known,they were so close that he didn't want to let her know cause he didn't know how she will take it and maybe it might destroy their friendship.

He had to summon up courage and tell how he felt but to his outmost surprise he was turned down by the girl who told him she wasn't in love with him,that broke him instantly but it changed him for better,he became a better man and he didn't stop being friends with her,he loved himself so much that the girl could feel it.

Years passed and one fateful day the girl confessed her love to him because she couldn't help but fall in love with the man he grew into and till right now they're still very much in love.

That's what unrequited love which was channeled into self love can do.

I'm out.