Saying no!!!

In this life of peer pressures and social media influences,so many people find it hard to say no.....they wouldn't want to do something but just because they're friends do it and the friends think it's cool....they have no choice but to do it.

And that shows how immature and how irresponsible our generation has become.

In this generation we go on blaming others for our mistakes as if we were forced to do it.

Social and peer pressures is what must surely occur,but we have every right to choose what we want and if we don't like the idea,we can boldly say no without thinking what our friends and how the other parties would feel.

How we feel about what we're about to do is what matters and not what the rest of the population thinks or feels.

For example

A friend says "Hey come take this pill...it will make you feel good and dope"

And you reply "No!!! I don't want to"

"Why?" Your friend questioned

"Cause I don't want to" you retorted.

He or she can't question or push you to take that pill anymore cause u stood your ground and he wouldn't even dare to show you that or even bring up the idea of you taking it again cause he knows you're not interested.

Now another example....this time u didn't say no.

"Hey,take this pill,it will will make you feel nice and dope"

And you reply " I haven't popped pills before,I don't think I can"

"Hey man, it's just a pill, don't worry it's cool,I take it too" your friend pressured while throwing a pill in his mouth.

Now your already pressured ass,cause u didn't say no at first can't say no now,will ask "are you sure?" As you take a pill and throw it down your gut.

Your friend will fist bump you,call you good names and now you feel you're among the gang.

And that's how it will continue, your friend will confront you with everything you've never tried before.

Saying no will stop and end alot of pressure from your peers and they'll respect you cause you can't be manipulated.....

Stand your ground and never do anything to be among the gang....if the clique is yours, it's yours.

Learn when to say no!!!