No matter how hard life is, parents are the best place to return to
As we get older, we realize several things. Where we can no longer be like schoolchildren. Those who can still play wherever we like. Over time, we also realize that as we get older, we can't do everything by strength alone. There are times when we have to give up one of them. It doesn't mean being selfish. It's just that as ordinary humans we are also humans who never escape from feeling tired because we keep trying to put the interests of other humans first. There are times to do one and other times to do the next. We can't do everything at the same time.
That's why time feels so fast and the soul feels increasingly tired. Some of the following reasons we may feel together.
When they are sick, they will not ask a lot of questions, but will provide first aid like instinct as a parent
In the early hours of the morning, your stomach feels nauseous, it's not even clear, who do we call first? our mother or father is not it? they will deftly mix their mainstay traditional medicine. And the next day, or if it can't be handled on their own, they will immediately take us to the nearest doctor or hospital.
Not much to ask, why? How can this be? Or other. It felt like no one could care like this other than them. No drama or pretense of worrying about our condition.
When we are alone, they actually want us to realize that they will always be there even when we are busy
Have you ever realized that as we get older, one by one our friends get married, migrate and study outside the city, so now we tend to be alone more often. Maybe for some of us who really like everything on our own, it's not a scary thing - it's become a common thing.
That's why they really miss us having time with them. It was precisely the time they had been waiting for. Proving that they will always be there even though one by one our friends are now far from us. Even in our busy times.
When work deadlines pile up, that's when we feel like we remember home and want to just lay down for a moment
Monday is back again. Since the morning it feels like work can't be compromised. Moreover, coupled with colleagues or superiors who are not in tune with us. I feel tired and want to go home. Anger and want to cry piled up in our chests. A shadow crossed that when we were little we didn't feel the world of work.
The moment when we cry mother is the first to comfort us. So if this is the case, who will calm you down? It feels like I just want to lie down and hug my mom or dad at home.
Actually the safest place to vent is to our parents. It's just that somehow they always become the umpteenth time
Even though we rarely talk to our mothers or fathers at home, when we tell our problems or our happiness, it will definitely be different. There is a different calm. Whether it's just me or maybe some of you also feel. Because I personally think telling parents is safer and can't be manipulated or spread by other people.
They will not pretend to believe or give advice. Instead, they will be happy if they see their children relieved in their arms even though they are in tears or even disappointment.
When all the creatures of the world disappoint, go home! Because the best place to put tired is parents and also home
You know, home misses us too. Missing when we wake up late. Missing when we joke with family. Missing when we all day lazing in front of the television alone. Missing when we sometimes fight with siblings. Longing for us to come home from all the exhaustion of facing the disappointments and injustices of the world. Come home! They are waiting for us now at home.