Judgement of other people is very important nowadays. They judge not minding what will they affect to the people they are judging. Its hard to meet the standard of the society, words are powerful. It will hurt mentally and emotionally without knowing it, they leave painful remarks that will slowly kill us inside. They leave scars that no one can able to see, they judge easily without knowing it will leave a great damage not only in our heart but also in our soul.

They first judge you base on your physical appearance. If you don't meet their standards, then ready to be judge. If you born ugly then you don't have the rights to shine in the society, you need to contribute something just for them to accept you. Unfair isn't it? It's hard for us to build our confidence but it takes second for them to crashed it. It takes us a long process to accept ourselves as who we are but then one word is enough to bring us back to zero.

Nowadays, many people tend to use many beauty products that will make them satisfied to their looks. They are afraid to be judge by the society and also to boost their self-esteem. They do anything just to build they self-confidence that the society repeatedly breaking.

Sometimes to prevent us of being mistreated because of our looks, we do such things that will satisfied them. We change ourselves for them to accept or like us, we change into someone we are not. We even hurt our love ones just for us to feel that we are belong in this world. Even we have the looks, we are lacking of self-confidence because of the judgemental eyes from the people around us.

One of the impact of the physical appearance to our Self-confidence is we feel ashamed to face other people because we are conscious on our look and we are afraid that they might judge us once our eyes met. They can immediately make a conclusion base on our looks. Also, we tend to compare ourselves to someone we think better than us that might reduce our self-esteem. We compare their body and face to us and we will belittle ourselves because of it.

Another thing is obsession, they are obsessed in making their physical appearance beautiful just to meet the standards of the society. They do anything, even it cost alot. If they want something, they badly wanted it to happen. The worst is depression, the words coming from other people hurt us alot. The way they look, the words they say and the insults have a impact to our Self-confidence.

The scar that never seen, the bruised that never heal and the marks that will stay forever are enough to destroy your life. Just because of our physical appearance they looked at us like we commit sin or serious offense. The looks doesn't defined us a human, beauty fades but the goodness you have done to other people will remain forever.

Every people has unique beauty of their own. They are beautiful despite of any differences, we are all beautiful in His eyes. Don't change our personality for them to accept us, don't mind what they say to us. We know ourselves more than other people. Don't tremble and don't let the society destroy you, value yourself and love yourself more.

Ignore what they say, know your worth and accept yourself wholeheartedly. All the creation of God are beautiful and you are one of them. Just stand straight, held your head high and believe on yourself and the beauty you have. Show them the confidence you build long time ago and no one can ever destroy it again.

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