Companion Selection
Coming from a failed marriage experience.
In this day and age, where success is a determinant on whether one becomes an esteemed member of society or a commoner amongst their kind. We are incited more into this state of acceptance by the spiritual leaders of this generation, who symbolize monetary success as the highest attainment within social structure. But this article is not meant to address the deception/illusion of acceptance based on monetary success.
Gone are the days of; " Marry a church girl my son, her moral conviction is more disciplined". This is due to the fact, that faith is no longer narrowed in the sense where discipline is concerned, new generation ministers are more tolerant of human vice, thus making even the heathen confident to be a devout.
Nowadays relationships are pursued at the discretion of both parties concerned. Therefore one should have a meteyard, from which they determine compatibility. Yes, beauty is an instant likeability, which used as a determinant factor, many marriages would endure the trials that comes with cohabitation. From this point we determine that relationships are sustained through more than physical attraction.
So how does one really determine companionship?
Assessed based on our time, concerning long term endurance in a relationship, the female party has to be more vested than the male party.
Matters of ambition matter, assess if ones aspirations may or may not place a stumbling block on the longstanding probability in the relationship.
Genuine interest is of course imperative.
Both parties opinions, aspirations and visualizations should be venerated, if not; appreciated.
Liberality is a driving factor
Based on my experience on relationships. This is by no means professional diagnosis, just mere opinion.
