The best advice you will receive today
Like everything in life, what I am about to explain to you has its process. I don't know what your day was like, nor do you know what mine was like, and here we are, you reading me and me writing this, obviously at different times.
I like to think of Schrödinger and his experiment... This was and wasn't until you read it.
And that's life, life is the things we do or stop doing, that's why at the moment you read this, I come to say what you should stop doing, And you know what it is? You should stop giving up, don't give up, because why give up, the earth was not formed in one day, nor in one hour, it took millions of years (if you believe in science) or 7 days (if you are a believer), even God took 7 days to create everything we know. So why do you want to get everything right the first time? Life is about the mistakes we make, when we "achieve" something, it is thanks to everything we learned from those trials and events, this gives us experience. Many times we think that if we do not achieve it in the same time as someone else, we are miserable, but it is not so! Life flows at the rhythm that each one of us needs. At the moment we are fertilized, it is a unique moment, an event in millions, we have our exact time of birth, why if we are unique beings should we expect events to be the same?
The human being is that, what makes us different from other species that inhabit this planet, is the universality that gives us our mind: we are able to think, to imagine, to create planets in our brains and destroy them in a second. I speak of the uniqueness of the human being as the uniqueness of a wolf, a cat or even a butterfly, I speak from my experience.
The mind has no form, it has no definition, that is why it has no limits, you cannot limit what you do not know, what you do not see, what you cannot touch. That's why we wander, that's why we can have such "bizarre" dreams, that's why don't try to limit it, you will only end up frustrated.
The body, on the other hand, does, it has an expiration date, it has physical limits, it has definition and form. And both depend on each other, the mind creates what the mind creates. The body creates what the mind creates, but without a body there is no mind that exists, not on the material plane at least, or on the plane of what we see.
What am I trying to say with all this?
That you should take advantage and be grateful that you have a body and a mind that inhabits it, you are an unstoppable machine of causes and effects. You are composed of millions and millions of particles, why should you let your laziness, procrastination, fear, stop everything you are capable of doing?
Be constant, disciplined, whatever it is you wish to do. Have you ever seen ants taking apart a piece of cake? A piece that can be a thousand times their size, they take days, they work day and night, because they have a defined objective, they know what they have to do and they know they can't stop until they achieve it. A being of 1.5 to 2 millimeters can do it, and you, someone of meters and centimeters in size, why can't you do it? Your mind is the fuel, the guide, don't make it your barrier.
Have you ever imagined what would happen to mankind if they were like ants? Would we have made it this far? I am not sure, it would be interesting to know.
Nature has quite interesting forms and ways of being, everything is part of a system (which we also compose), however, the human being breaks with all this, for better or for worse, but he does it. Why don't you break with those patterns that have you tied, sad and tired? Enough is enough, it's time to start fighting with what is holding you back and fulfill your dreams.