5 SIGNS YOU HAVE A GOLD DIGGER FOR A BOYFRIEND
1. YOU COVER THE BILLS MORE THAN HE DOES: Some guys are broke, and some of our ladies really just foot the bills out of love. This is highly appreciated, but if your boyfriend is of the HABIT of being "broke," ' forgetting' his ATM card and coyly making you pay for things you both need, that's a clean gold digger red flag. Unless you're his cougar (sugar mummy) and it's a "FEE-lationship" in which case it is your "constitutional" duty to pay the fee. 2. HE SMARTLY "SUGGESTS" HIS NEEDS: "Hey babe, I told you I'll be travelling next week. I've paid for the seminar except the hotel bill is really much but I'll manage with a friend or however I can. Times are hard and I only have enough for the seminar fee and a few other expenditures. I just hope I can make it back. Thank you a lot. will miss you." This technique is called "the dog face" where a male makes himself look pathetic, vulnerable and helpless to you, pretending he's not directly asking for help. This is supposed to haunt your emotions and make you sympathize with him and subsequently give him whatever he "suggested." This way, he makes you feel you want to help him when really, he's psyching you into it. it's Emotional Robbery. If he's of this filthy habit, he's digging you.
3. HE REWARDS YOU WITH GOOD SEX: Men naturally desire their partners sexually, but when a man intentionally impresses you in bed after every time you give him money or pay his bills, he's mostly trying to coax you into doing more to get more. This type of sex will be different, intentional, almost like an obligation. You'll see focus in his eyes, he'll be very objective, expressive and gymnastics but without real sensual involvement in the action.
4. every time YOU REACT OR OFFEND HIM, HE THINKS YOU'RE DOING IT "BECAUSE OF YOUR MONEY" Men understand leverage; there are many things a man should see as a cause of female misbehaviour in relationships but if he's constantly thinking its money, maybe, Just maybe it's because he considers your money your leverage in the relationship. He thinks you're acting up because you're keeping the relationship running financially, which means he already sees you from this perspective. If he was paying the bills, maybe he'd say you're acting up "because you're pretty," but he thinks you're acting up "because of your money" because your money is really all he sees, and wants, and is afraid of losing, mostly.
5. HE SEES YOU READING THIS AND TRIES TO CONVINCE YOU THIS POST IS BULLSHIT: Okay. That's all. I still love the decent men in this world every day.
