Leaving the Negative life and change it into Possibility
It’s more than a week since I did not write or update my article here and because of that, I will write my reason why. Thankfully, I have already a guts to tell it to you as my reader about this.
I know that this is not my place to say my rant, my sad story, my life but I would like to have ‘someone’ who I can share at my problems. At this moment, I was sighing because I don’t know how to start but I will try my best just so you can understand it.
My Family did not understand me, the things that I want and I like
I was immature if I say this and I know that you will judge me but pardon for being immature but this is what I feel. They didn’t ask me what I want to do and I always like a pet to them who just do what they likes and wants without asking me if *‘I like that too’, or ‘I will agree to their decision’.*
Honestly, I can’t voice out my own thoughts and opinions. I remembered that when I did that, they are the one who are mad.
They did not appreciate what I do
They always get mad when I hold my phone. They always saying that i’m focusing finding a boyfriend or interacting with guys, they always telling me that I’m lazy and I don’t plans on my life. Yet they didn’t know that I’m just starting. I join here because I want to earn. I join here because i think this is the place for me where I can share my story or thoughts that I can speak or voice out loud to them. I want to feel free this mess and lights up my world like what other people.
And because of this , This is the reason why my life is like a mess. I have a lot of negative thoughts running to my head and they are not stopping until my head bursts out and It’s making me crazy
crazy that I would like to Question my self **“Why I am here?”** And **“Why I born in this way?”**
But despite of what happen I’m here. I’m here writing this because I realize that I don’t need them. I don’t need to do what they want and I open my eyes from the reality. Why I will live like that? Why I will obey what others wants? Why I even do the things that I don’t like to do if
I can do the things that I want to do
In this world, we are free. We can think our own decision, we can live peacefully without people’s command. We can walk to the path that we want to go.
So instead of obey their opinions, their likes, their dream to me I started to follow my lead. I didn’t think what they will think of me, they will say to me, or they will dissapointed to what I will be do to my life because this is my head, my shoulder, knees, and toes joke only!
We just live once so...
I advice you do the things that will make you happy but you should make sure that you will walk in the right path that you can think it is the best.
In doing what you like:
**Decide what is you think it is the best for you**
**Follow what your heart wants**
**Think carefully the consequences and;**
**Learn to accept mistake if you choose the wrong decision**
We just live once so while we are still young, do and experience the things that you want to do and create a memory and achieve the goals that you want to. Because you will regret that in the future if you didn’t follow what you desire and you will not be happy if you just kept that to your self.
I write this because I want you to learn to follow what you want and this is for those people who are living like me. We should learn to be happy by our own and not because of other people.
Thank you for reading! I hope that there is a lesson that you get in this article. See you on my next Article I don’t have a proper date yet but I hope I can able to write again, I’m not sure. :)
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**Here is my First Article:**
https://read.cash/@Doubleyoudotcomdotph/my-introduction-before-i-write-you-can-know-me-here-79812a21
**Second Article that I publish last week:**
https://read.cash/@Doubleyoudotcomdotph/what-is-the-real-definition-of-success-bf5e5cd5
What is the real Definition of success?
I write this article because of this Question in my head, “Are dreams are just for people who are poor?”
By looking at some peoples life, In reading some stories, and or by watching movies and dramas, I notice something and that is most commonly they include a poor people that have a dreams and goals in their life and because of that, it makes everyone inspire by the stories of what they watch because after they act as a poor until they are fighting through the battles and how many times that they failed and they give their best, they already become successful.
In life, it is the same story to everyone. If what the characters in the story experience, we also experience that in our life and the truth is, I notice one thing after watching how many movies and Dramas, in how many books that i read, even if they are all have different genres, all of what you are watching has the same goals and like to convey to you as a audience and Do you like to know what are those?
It is just Simple,
*“No Matter what Happen, we should still fight in the battle”*
Everything that you watch and story that you read, ‘Battle’ can never be out in the story. Like for example, breaks up, there is someone who will die, fighting some enemies; are just one of those examples of what they are trying to convey.
They are always teaching us to make a decisions in our life so when it will happen to you, you will know what to do.
Now I will ask you a question, ***“Dreams and Goals, it is just for?”***
Based in how I observed in some Movies/Dramas and random video from social media and in the stories that I read, There are two kinds of people in this world and that is:
**The People who are have a dreams and goals in life**
-They are the People who are like dreaming. They always dreams the things that they did not have and they want to have, they did dream the things that they want to experience in their life.
**The People who don’t dream**
-They are the people who don’t have a plan to live a long life, they are the people who are contented to what they have, they are the people who already have all the things, they already experience everything so that they don’t need to wish something already, but their life is boring.
Why?
Because they already have everything. They can afford shoes, bags, clothes, car, they already have their own house, they can travel a lot but they don’t enjoy their life with a trill. They don’t learn and they don’t experience to make a lot of sweats just to achieve that in short
*“The People who are rich are the people that they don’t experience the real feeling of success.”*
When I watch the Korean drama ‘Playful Kiss’
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playful_Kiss
The Male lead did not have a Dream, His parents control him to whatever he wants and he never complain. Because he already have all the things in his life: Money, That they can afford everything that he like because his family is rich and they own a company, Another thing is he can do everything because he is genius. Reason why, after he graduated high school, he did not know if what he would like to do after. He don’t have a Dream or Goals in his life. Thanks to the Girl Lead because she gives him a advice even if she is dumb in acads, she is genius and a kind hearted one. She give him a reason to try do the things that he did not do before. Like he Try to do the works that some normal people do like Being a Waiter, He also go out to their house so that he can experience to live independently, he choose to study medicine and to be a Doctor to help some children.
He do that things because he already have the things that some normal people wants to be. He do that things so that he will experience how to become successful on his own. He do that because he likes to live as a normal person.
And the reason why I share that To you is because i like to tell you that
*“Having dreams and goals in life doesn’t define in your status of living.”*
Everyone are Free to have a Dreams and Goals in their life. Rich or Poor, we have our own dreams and goals that we want to achieve and experience in our life. Because that is life, Even if we already have the things that we have, we still have a Dreams and Goals that we want to achieve.
Because if you are born rich, all of the assets of your Parents will be yours but never be from your own hard work. Do you think you can live by that? Do you think you will be happy by that?
It is better to achieve dreams and goals in your life by putting hard work, it is better if it is from your own effort and from your own sweats.
Because that is the True definition of Success.
Thank you for reading! I would like to thank everyone who welcome me here yesterday and for the first time, I experience to receive a tips from this kind people 🤩
Thank you for the $0.01 @Mictorrani and for the advice!
And to @HyeRin @Eunoia @ExpertWritter for the tips and welcoming me in the comment.
I appreciate your kindness and i feel thank you and this was encourage me to write more in the future!
If you want to know me, Here are the link of my Introduction:
https://read.cash/@Doubleyoudotcomdotph/my-introduction-before-i-write-you-can-know-me-here-f62b3f44
Thank you!
My Introduction before I write, You can know me Here
Before I will post an Article, I will introduce my self first so that you can be aware in things that I will share to you in the future.
Who am I ?
I’m just a simple writer and i am not perfect. Because I can write some mistakes like errors, typos or wrong spellings, and wrong grammar.
I don’t consider my self as a good writer because I can’t think better topic and or ideas to write sometimes and I am aware that every writers can make some mistakes in writing.
I don’t also know how to Write articles but I’m willing to learn from you.
What is Writing and Reading for me?
Writing and Reading is not have a huge difference because we can both learn but Writing can make you write your thoughts, Ideas, knowledge, and everything that you wanted to write and learn. While Reading can make us learn by reading some books, and other written words by genius people like reading some stories, articles, etc. and I like Reading and Writing.
What made you join Here?
I want to learn how to Write article because I am still lack of knowledge in how to write one and I’m not good at expressing my thoughts so I think it will be better to share it to everyone here and I also like to interact new people.
I also like to read some others works so that I can learn and discover more! But i will be honest, I like to earn money by using my skills in writing.
Do you have experience in Writing some Article?
Yes, but I did not know If I will call that as an article since I don’t speak english fluently and I’m still learning to write some.
**What kind of genre do you always read?**
Anything. I am willing to read all of what you share because I believe that it is worth it to read until in the last word of your work. I am not choosy in article as long as it makes me become curious. Except to cryptocurrencies because I am not good at that kind of stuffs.
Do you know how to Write about Cryptocurrency?
No. I don’t know how to write because I am not good at that kind of topic but I tried to read one earlier in the Home Page but It makes me dizzy. I’m sorry.
What are your Hobbies?
**Reading**
I like reading stories and I am a fan of romance and novel. I like to explore different words of other people’s life.
**Writing**
I like writing stories but sometimes I don’t continue it because I’m bored in my own work.
**Playing Mobile Games**
Sometimes i play mobile games to entertain myself from being bored.
**Watching Movies**
I like watching movies esp. some Horrors and zombie movies. Because it is have a trill but it makes me scared because sometimes it appear in my dreams.
**Painting**
I am a fan of art and I become easily amaze by other people’s paint even if it looks like a draw of a 2 years old kid, I am good at appreciating some Artist work.
But It’s almost years ago when i stop my hobby to paint because of being poor, I don’t have enough money to buy some materials.
**Why you choose that nickname?**
Well, I can’t think a better nickname and the www. Com appear in my head so i choose that. It doesn’t matter because what important is my work here and so don’t mind my Nickname
**What is Your profile Picture means?**
You mean this?
Oh, Okay! Let me explain what It means.
How many letters did you see in that photo? One? Nah. let me guess, that you just see it as simple **‘W’** letter but, It has **Five letters.**
How?
It because the W letter is double. Which is means that it Has two different kinds of me.
**Double You**
The other one is Me who is just a simple person and a character in my Article who write by the other me who is the writer of mine. Like I write my own story in my article. For example is when I write about my experience.
**Com**
As known as a computer. I can and can’t sometimes control my own World if you notice the world logo
beside the letter reason why I consider myself as Ai.
and another stand for the world logo beside is I will spread to everyone my Words and Works.
**PH** stands for
It is obvious that it is the two letters in the name of my country, **PHILIPPINES** 🇵🇭 Because I am from Philippines and yes I’m a filipino.
And it is always commonly used for url address in the Phil. The www.com.ph
So that is all some of my informations about me here. If you have some questions you can leave it in the comments. I am willing to get to know you all ❤️ And I hope that I can find more friends and you can support me. 🥰 Godbless!
Mabuhay po kayong lahat!
@Doubleyoudotcomdotph
