Is it possible to become a friend in a few days? Is he the true friend who has been with me for so long? Some people have to face this question at some stage of life. In any case, the person you know for a short time can become a lifelong friend.
Rabindranath said, friendship is in Attapur. Even if the clothes are torn in one or two places in the attapur of friendship, even if it is slightly dirty, there is no harm, even if it does not reach below the knee, it is not forbidden to wear it. I just got comfortable with the body. That is the friendship. Space, time, age, gender — nothing stands in the way.
As friendship is for Nehat friendship, it is also necessary for friendship. There is no question that that need will be just financial or material. Friends can also get from the match of thoughts and feelings and tastes. Friendship starts from a world of like-minded people. For example, Dwijendralal Roy had a great friendship with Rabindranath Tagore out of love of writing, song, literature and culture. Although that friendship was later ruined. This is also real.
Parmita and Himel (pseudonym) were introduced in the work source. A kind of understanding is created because there are similarities in the areas of mutual interest. The man who loves Himel is not meant to be. Parmita may know the matter. Meets that girl for a friend, takes on the responsibility of persuading her. After many attempts, it is also successful. "I haven't known Permita for a long time," says Himmel. It will be three-four months. That's not to say "friends", professional relationships. I was very upset. Wanting to know what happened, I told him about my problem. Said to himself can help me. Truth be told, I couldn't believe him at first. Why do you want to benefit from the advance? I thought that too. Because of Permita I was able to marry the man I love. He has become a good friend of both of us. But this responsibility was not taken by my long time friends. '
Ehsan Habib, a professor in the Department of Sociology at Dhaka University, thinks that good friends are needed for the development of family, society and the surrounding psychosocial society. Friendship with children means love, raising the eyebrows at unequal ages — these should not be done. You have to understand that you can't be a good friend just by eating in a good restaurant and giving good gifts.
One of the acquaintances asked a strange question to another friend. The question was, are your close friends longtime friends? The friend laughed in response to the questioner. The answer is, over time, close friends, loyal friends are made. Even long-term close friends do not know much. The matter does not happen on purpose. Not all events, situations are available to everyone. It has been seen that one or two of them have become very close friends. Whether it's a real friend, a real friend or a close friend, it can happen from a momentary situation.
It is true that in a long-term friendship there is more trust, confidence, reliance. That's why he has to wait for ten years to become a new friend জন্য to claim friendship, that's not right either. At a very bad time in life, in a moment of despair, you tell a person older than you about your secret troubles. Surely you have not grown up with him since your childhood. He may have been able to give you that confidence. Whether he is a woman or a man, small or big, it does not become the main thing. You can feel your emotions, problems or feelings of happiness, you feel — he is also your closest friend. He showed his loyalty by not revealing his secret to anyone else. There are many friends in life who silently benefit, never talk about how much they have benefited you with their words and deeds. That friend has been known for a short time but has become a close friend — but you have to understand that.
