Even when angry, the language of the mouth should be restrained

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Blasphemy is not a good thing at all. Blasphemy is not desirable. We must be restrained in our use of language and words. Islam does not support hurting anyone with insults. It is not the duty of a believer to insult or speak in inaudible language. Although the believer is furious with anger, he responds with elegant language, politeness and restraint, but when some people get angry, they insult others with obscene and vulgar words. Swearing in vulgar language.
In the eyes of Islam, insulting others is completely forbidden. And if it is without guilt, then it is a more heinous crime. In the Holy Qur'an, Allaah says that those who harm believing men and women without guilt must bear the burden of false accusations and clear guilt. (Surat al-Ahzab: 58)
Hadith against speaking obscenely
Civilized people do not insult others. Do not speak inaudible language to anyone. In Islam, it is not allowed to insult anyone for any reason. In spite of laughter, jokes and jokes, insulting others is indecent in the eyes of Islam. He who has four habits is called a hypocrite in the hadith. Even if one of them is found, he will be considered a hypocrite. In the light of the hadith, they are, ‘When he is trusted, he breaks the trust. Speaking, lying. When he makes a promise, he breaks it and when he gets into a dispute, he adopts an unjust path. (Bukhari, Hadith No. 34; Muslim, Hadith No. 106)
Another hadith says, "One of the sins of poets is to curse their parents." It was asked, "Messenger of Allah!" How do people curse their parents? ’He said,‘ When he insults another’s father, he insults his own father as well. And he insults the mother of others, in return he insults his mother. '(Bukhari, Hadith No. 5973, Tirmidhi, Hadith No. 1902)
May Allah protect us from blasphemous and obscene speech. Donate tawfiq to use elegant language and melodious words.
Blasphemy is not the solution to any problem, decent people never use blasphemy as a tool for any reason, instead of resolving blasphemy, complicating the situation, Allah says in the Holy Quran, ‘Do not blaspheme those who worship other than Allah. Because then they will also curse Allah out of ignorance, there will be no solution. 'People are social beings. It is not in the interest of Islam to retaliate by making abusive, obscene, vulgar remarks, as it may not be compatible with one another in life or one may be harmed by the ignorance of the other, so it is against the etiquette of Islam. In this case, the instruction of Islam is to forgive if you can, it will be very rewarding for you. God will forgive you on the Day of Resurrection, or else be silent, you will be rewarded with patience.
The Prophets have heard a lot of insults, vulgar remarks, obscene words have been thrown at them to propagate the religion of Islam, they have never retaliated, they have accepted with a smile. No one can show a precedent in the life of our Prophet (peace be upon him) that he abused anyone for any reason. There is no evidence that even the Companions insulted Keram. Even the worst enemies of Islam, the hypocrites, did not insult the infidels and their nefarious intentions. And if you have to say something, then respond to it with good words. In the Holy Qur'an, Allah Ta'ala says that if you resist with good words, then the enmity between you and him will disappear and intimate friendship will be established.
Blasphemy is not a sign of a healthy mentality. Money laundering or habitual abuse of many people verbally, many people laughing and joking and insulting others, but none of this is right. Regarding blasphemy, Hazrat Rasulullah (peace be upon him) said, "If two people insulted each other, then the sin of that blasphemy will fall on the person who blasphemed first until the tortured person crosses the line." In the light of this hadith, it is understood. That is, the person who initiates the abuse is the oppressor and the second person is the oppressor. And the oppressed person can take revenge to the extent that he has been abused. However, in this case, it is better not to take revenge for the abuse.
