Some of the qualities of a good husband
01: A good husband will let you know through work even if he doesn't say it in his mouth, he loves you.
He will try to help you even if it is a little bit in your various tasks and will evaluate your work. Even if not through words, sometimes his love will be expressed through some deeds.
02: Expression of love
Husband will express or try to express his love to his wife in different ways.
Not everyone will express love in the same way but will express love. You will understand that he loves you.
03 বুঝ Understanding the mind of the wife ঃ Although neither the husband nor the wife is a psychiatrist or can see the mind, but it is normal for one to try to understand the other's mind, the needs of the mind. Husband and wife should have this quality if they understand anger and try to break the pride.
It is hoped that the love between them will increase. But it should also be kept in mind that if you are arrogant while remembering the words of the mind, many times unnecessary problems are created, so let the mind know. Explain why you like it and why you don't like it. You will see that at some point you will understand the good and the bad.
Here are some tips to be a good wife for sisters উপায় a way to earn a husband's love
04: Don't cheat: Cheating is a bad thing not only for the husband, but for all people. And if cheating is with the wife, then the incident is fatal!
A loving husband should never cheat on his wife.
If you want to tell, tell the truth and if you don't want to tell, keep quiet, don't be deceived by lying.
Remember I don't like you to be deceived.
05 সাহায্য Helping with work
A good husband will help you in your various tasks. Whether more or less occasionally or daily. She would love to help you at work. Because being with you while helping with your work lightens your work. He will not hesitate to do this but will like it. Although my idea is that it may decrease after several years of marriage. But if you follow Islam on the basis of duty instead of just love, then God willing, it will not decrease but increase.
08: Evaluation of words: A good husband will evaluate his wife's words. Consult with the wife on various tasks and think about the wife when making decisions.
(Sisters should think coldly without giving Bengali feminine advice and give real advice to the husband. Your words are right for the husband.)
06 ঃ Compromised: Men should know that wives will be baka. So let the wife be angry, be arrogant, quarrel, right or wrong !!! Husbands should compromise with her and apologize. The girls may later realize their mistake and suffer in their minds. After a long time they may even apologize to you in the form of hints.
In any case, the brothers should agree with the wife.
08 না Although not a joker, funny: Who likes annoyed people?
Good husband will be fun. That doesn't mean he'll be a joker, laughing at jokes for hours on end. But if his wife is upset, he will try to make her feel better.
It could be a funny joke, a surprise, a favorite food, a walk, or some other way.
09: Practicing Muslim: A husband must be a practicing Muslim. There will be no aspect of Islam in it. And 5 times prayer is obligatory. No one can be a good person or a good husband without being a good Muslim.
10 ঃ Gairat ঃ A husband will have protective jealousy towards his wife. He does not like to talk to his wife, who is not a mahram. He would not like his wife to be lazy or acupuncture. That's normal. People of love will be in care, not in a playful way that everyone will see, everyone will know, everyone will talk.
Some tips for brothers to increase the love of husband and wife.
01: Listen to the wife.
Do not rush or be busy. This will cause the wife to feel proud when she comes to the place of love which will not be good at all for the relationship.
Listen carefully to what your wife is saying. Give it to your wife every night for a while. Not just for physical needs, but for mental needs as well.
02: Correct the error or avoid it
We all have faults. Look at the faults of the wife lightly. Think of his good qualities. Satan wants to cause trouble in our relationships so that we are deprived of welfare.
So Satan makes us angry at our wives when we are angry or at other times. Then we put the wife's faults all together for the whole year. If that happens, it will seem that everything is wrong with him, the family will not be. Don't forget to do that. When you are angry, when you make a mistake, think of the good qualities and you will see that things will become lighter.
If the character of the wife is right, then it is easy for her to abide by the obligation.
03 সম্মান Respect the jealousy of the wife
Our mother and sister are a little jealous. And there is no talk about the husband !!! Respect his jealousy in a bad way.
04 ঃ screen 6
Just as it is obligatory for a wife to wear a veil, it is also obligatory for you to wear a veil. So keep your wife in the screen and keep your eyes in the screen. Then stay away from laughing jokes with women.
05: Help with household chores:
The family is not just the wife. The family is yours, so if you have the opportunity, help her. Believe that love will increase many times.
The wife takes care of your children, takes care of the house and takes care of the needs of your mind and body.
It is your job to discover what that is and to bring it about. This help will not reduce his work but will create love in his mind. He will understand that you think of him as you love him and this will create a different love and respect for you in his mind.
07: Avoid comparisons.
Well how would you feel if someone compared you to someone smaller? It's normal that no one likes it. And girls just don't like being compared to other girls. So don't underestimate him by comparing him to someone else's wife or someone else. Explain if there is a mistake, do not give a lie.
08: Expression of love 6
Girls like to hear about love. You may think that you know that you love him, then what is the need to say it again and again !!!
But in fact your wife loves to hear your love over and over again.
Express your love to her in different ways. Tell him face to face, give him a gift, tell him about love on the day when his mind is good. Do not be stingy in loving and expressing love.
07 ঃ Remember you are the guardian
When you go to love your wife, don't forget that you are her guardian. Do not go public in love hidden in the realm of the wife.
Make the right decision at the right time, give her the lead to keep her on the right path according to Islam.
Do not start sitting on the words of the wife. Don't forget your parents for your wife.
09: Don't be afraid
Do not show fear of divorce in words. Divorce should not be talked about in this way.
10 দিন Give a gift.
Although it is not very expensive, sometimes give a gift to the wife. We all like to get gifts. And if the gift is from a person of love, then the value of the gift increases even more. Wives should also occasionally give a gift. Even if you can't do anything, sometimes you can surprise your husband by dressing up nicely. This is also a great gift to him.
Clever husband
He got married and brought his wife to his flat. The next morning the son-in-law got up as soon as it was dark. He went to the kitchen without calling his wife and prepared breakfast very carefully.
He brought breakfast in a very nice plate-parish and kept it with his sleeping wife. Then he caressed her, gently woke her and said:
- Get up, eat breakfast with a little trouble and go back to sleep.
- Where did breakfast come from at seven in the morning?
-Why did I make it at home?
- Why don't you call me?
- I didn't want to wake up when I saw you sleeping.
- Then I wash my hands and face.
- No, no, you don't have to bother. Look, I have brought hot water. And this is not a towel. Wash your hands and face in the pipe and finish the instant breakfast.
After breakfast, the son-in-law said:
- How about a tea?
- It would be great. I made the tea?
- No, why bother? What you need to get out of the blanket. I am doing everything.
The two of them sipped their tea and started talking about different things. When the meal was over, the son-in-law went and left the sticky dishes in the kitchen. He did not allow his wife to do anything.
When he returned, he asked his wife:
- How was the whole thing, tell me?
- Great. This is how family life should be.
-Then he will make me breakfast like this every morning from tomorrow. The exception is not so.
Sheikh Atiqullah (Hafiz.)
Two hadiths about the love of husband and wife.
A few words about husband and wife from IslamQA Bagla. I hope you will benefit from reading.
Alhamdulillah.
Love between husband and wife: The innate nature of a human being. In the case of such matters, it cannot be said that it is obligatory in the Shari'ah. Or the Shari'ah has instructed in this regard. Rather, natural causes are sufficient for such matters, rather than seeking a new Shari'ah instruction.
Undoubtedly, a person who imagines married life as just a romantic novel or a pink dream is looking for something in this world of human beings whose existence is impossible. That world has been created with the nature of suffering, tribulation and fatigue. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Verily, I have created mankind in a state of distress.”
The poet says:
Naturally life is miserable; But you want to get life free from problems and crises.
The person who wants to give life a responsibility against its innate nature is like looking for the embers of fire in the water.
If we understand this and look at life with the right eyes, then we will see that there is no way to reach perfection or to be free from all faults. It is enough for you that the faults or shortcomings that you see should not be an obstacle to maintaining peace and tranquility. When a man was thinking of divorcing his wife, 'Umar said to him: Why do you want to divorce him? The man said: I do not love him. He said: Is every house built on love? Where is the feeling of caress and public condemnation? !!
In other words, be patient with your partner, your wife. Your condition is the same as that of all human beings with their wives and friends. People come together despite not being satisfied with each other, not liking each other. The need for each other brings them together. !!
So the family members take care of each other and build harmony among them and everyone can understand each other's duties towards each other. And the feeling of public condemnation is that everyone should avoid such behavior so that their path does not become detached or isolated through it.
Think about this saying of Allah:
And among His Signs is that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find in them peace. And He has created love and kindness in you. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. ”[Surah Rum: 21]
Here God mentions the "love" between husband and wife as a sign of God's creation and power; He did not mention his instructions as necessary. Because the love of the heart is not owned by the servant. Rather, the servant who owns it is - grace and good conduct.
Ibn Katheer (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "And among His Signs is that He has created for you wives from among yourselves." This means that he has arranged a wife for you from your own kind. "So that you may have peace with them." As another verse says, "He created you from a single person and created from him his wife, so that she may have peace with him." [Surah Al-A'raf, verse: 189] He created Adam from the smallest bone in his left rib. If God had made all the children of Adam men, and made their women from other nations, such as jinn or other animals, then such a bond would not have been formed between them and their wives. On the contrary, if the wives were from other nations, they would be disgusted with each other. God's favor to the children of Adam is that He created their wives from among their own people, and made them love one another. What is happening is love. And created kindness. That which is happening - Maya. So a husband holds his wife perhaps out of love for her; Or because of Maya towards him - if he has a child in the wife's house or if the wife is dependent on him for sustenance or because of the union between the two of them, etc.
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