I can't live without you!❤️😚🥰

Humans, no doubt, are social beings which translates to us being dependent on one another. As the popular saying goes, "no man is an island of himself" and I believe no matter how advanced science and technology becomes in the future, humans would always need other humans for one thing or the other. While having this attribute of dependency an being sociable, we still manage to retain our individuality, that attribute that gives us a feeling of oneness that only us know about, the more spiritual aspect of us, that is what I am going to be talking about today.

People, over time seem to be losing the latter gradually, that's the aspect of our own individuality. Humans are unique beings and there's something that each person has that no body else possesses, even if they might look or sound similar. There's also this individuality that comes with knowing that you are alone in this world and if you're a believer in the here after, you're also alone there, a kind of individuality that comes with knowing that at the end of it all, you're alone, no matter how you love or care for another person or no matter how they care or love you. Of course you'll meet people, fall in love, develop feelings of love and care for various people, but at the end of the day, they won't take you with them to their grave nor can you take them with you to yours.

The most often song and cherished phrase "I can't live without you" to me is utter bullshit, I know that's quite superfluous to say but nonetheless, there it is! I know some people say that phrase just to make the person hearing it feel loved, but truly, there are still people out there who say it and mean it, matter of fact, I used to be one of them. Note that I am not trying to say those who say such things are naive but to say that if you believe in such thing, sooner or later, you will realize that that's not true. You will live, you will break, you might even get depressed, but you shall live unless you stuck to your word by commiting the unthinkable, and I don't think you'd end up in the same place as them.

I believe those people who have lost a good amount of people whom they have deep affection for can relate to what I am talking about, it is like a part of you, that can't be replaced, died and was buried along with them, I see that part as the part that you have to shed so that you might grow, maybe that's the reason why most of the people who've lost many people in their lives are spiritual people, because they have come to know the Spirit of individuality as well as that of connectability with others, and have come to balance them in adequate proportions in their lives.

The thing is that Life goes on,with or without whoever or whatever. That's it! Not only people but also things, for I believe that anything that you lost, either a person or thing, would be replaced with something better, whether or not you realise it. So cherish those you love and do the things you love to do until you can no longer. Don't be afraid to love for fear of loss or betrayal, do not be afraid to pour your soul into doing the things you love to do, let go of fear and embrace love, for in love comes everything good, whether lost or found.

Thanks for reading.

Yours Layly,

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