Childish thoughts
As an adult we view the world differently. Let's imagine what we might do if we think ourselves as a child on different aspects for examples:-
Bike- Rushing for the fuel tank seat and using mirror stand as bike handle✌️. Arguing with parents so we could switch on the bike.🏍️🏍️
Markets- Tantrum for different toys especially the remote control cars for boys and kitchen set for girls✌️. Trying to sneak for chocolates and chips and so on.
Repairing tools- Act like we are the certified person for the job and rest all don't know how things works.
Cartoons- Nothing is better than cartoons especially one's of Disney, Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon.
Papers- The perfect tool to request elders to make boat during rain also to make aeroplane and trying to make one.
Rain- The perfect time to go play in mud.
Cars- The front seat is mine as I'm the owner and rest all in the back row.
Disneyland- Requesting parents to wear outfits that matches with us.
Milk- Not a good thing to drink unless additional flavors are added.
Nutella/Jam - The best thing to eat when no one's looking and making a mess everywhere.
While on balcony- Trying to peep through different holes in the wall for better view.
Aeroplane- waving bye as it will hear me and will bring fortune for me 😅😅
School- Best place to enjoy with friends. Place to learn dancing, singing and all other stuffs.
Homework- Once mam said it must be done then it must be done.
Relatives- The best ones are the ones who brings stuffs while visiting.
Game parlour- Heaven as there are games that I can play.
Parties- The best place where cold drink are endless also ice cream and desserts and make a mess of ownself before leaving.
During distribution- S/he got more than me so I want one.
Being a good boy/girl- So that I can get one more toffee or something resourceful and use it as tactic Everytime 😅😅.
Dogs- Something that will bite me for no reason at all so let's climb on the parents shoulder and tease the dog.
Friends- someone who knows me and understands me and will help me everytime. Someone with whom I can share my happiness and food and be a gentleman or gentlewoman.
Cousins- someone who always teases me and eats my piece of food.😤😤😤
I know I have not included a lot so everyone opinion is wholeheartedly accepted ✌️😉😉.
Sometime it's worth being a child in simple matter cause that might be something we've been missing for a long time??
Sound of silence🔊
Everyone knows what's silent. It's the lessening of the environment noises described in simple way.
But ever wondered how does it sound like??
I wouldn't call it hallucinating but it does have a sound and it's mesmerizing.
At present as I'm living alone and there's almost no one around me, I've been experiencing it frequently in a day and it's beautiful. I'm not a psychopath though😂😂😂
Mainly experienced in the early morning with the cold breeze and in the night, it's another form of peace that brings a pleasant surprise when felt.
It comes in a stealth way unable to be see and heard but it leaves a smile a unexpected joy and it touches the heart.
When sat alone or with groups while not talking and just enjoying that moment everyone hears the sound of the wind but ever wondered that It has been accompanied by the sound of silence.
Let's say sitting on the terrace and enjoying the weather and the scenario that the nature provides a brief moment comes when we feel outside of the living world in a place where everyone refers as heaven.
It does frightens most of time cause we are not used to it and it's the basic human nature to be scared of something that we can't see. But once getting used to it, becomes natural and it's something that one might need at times.
Yesterday around evening I was sitting at the college area to be specific the monument like sohid Minar and I felt it. It was almost absolute silent with birds chirping and cold breeze striking me and it took me away for few seconds. I couldn't do nothing but just to feel that moment which I was missing for a long time.
So yeah, try grasping and if not try listening at a phenomenon which I would say extra terrestrial.
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Positive attitude towards everything!?
People tends to be easily influence towards negativity and if I'm asked why, cause it's a easy path compared to being optimistic in everything.
Let's assume life as a transparent bucket and add pure water(which represents good vibes) then add soil or mud or colour and mix it, what do we get?? You're right as it turns dirty, impured, disgusting which represents the negatives in the life resulting in ownself getting drawn in the darkness.
Why should we think and be positive and is it worth it?
Let's continue with the above jar. Everyone saw that it was impure. So now let's start pouring fresh water and though it will take time but all the impurities will be washed again and the water is again the pure it was before.
What can we do to change life then? Let's see few points and if I have missed then opinions is always warmly welcomed.✌️😇😉
1)Hate has 4 letters so as love
2)Enemies has 7 letters so as Friends
3)lying has 5 letter so as Truth
4)Cry has 3 letters so as Joy.
5)Anger has 5 letters so as Happy.
6)Wrong has 5 letters so as Right.
7)Hurt has 4 letters so as Heal.
These are the few points to be changed as we all want is the better life not worst.
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Simplicity
Ever wondered how the world felt if being simple?
The amount of happiness is not just big it's ginormous.
People are mostly happy when either they are extremely rich or they're poor.
I might be questioned" you serious!! How come poor people are happy?? They don't have enough money at all and here you're saying they're happy. Are you out of the mind??"
Let's first see the rich side. Lets us say a billionaire cause everyone knows they're not just rich. They're are the Supremes of the rich cause they have what other have less and are able to afford almost everything what the world has to offer in their foot steps.
What about the middle person then?
They are like the ones walking on the cliff with the extremely narrow path always on the verge of falling which prevents then from being who they are.
Let us see the poor person then.
They don't have enough money. They can't afford what others can. Just they happen to have the biggest heart.
The happiness I referred for the poor ones are that of the rich people when they can afford the single thing.
For example. A poor person working everyday day and night just to afford meal twice a day for him and his family. Sometime he manages to earn a bit more than usual which he commonly spends on the carnival. It's not the great place for shopping but for him it's the biggest shopping centre he could afford.
Carnival!!!! It's just a simple temporary tent made place for small stuff.
But let me say, when you see the poor people collecting few cents everyday and using it in this so called simple place for happiness, that's the biggest feeling which corresponds to the riches. Ever seen a small child on their fathers shoulder with chocolates on one hand and balloon on the another smiling and seeing his child smile ever wondered the father's smile,It's immeasurable.
The riches goes on the expensive luxurious cars but poor travels on the buffalo or donkeys or rickshaw and guess what the feeling is almost same.
You want the hydrolic suspension in the car so that it's gives a pleasure feeling, try riding a buffalo, those rocking, swaying movements is just out of this world.
Being simple is not a curse. It's the another form of joy that people tends to forgets. They get blind to this stuff whose happiness is immeasurable.
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90's kid
There's this thing going on worldwide between 90's kid and those born after 15 year's that would be 2005 AD.
What's so different between them let's find out.
I, Myself born in the mid 90 includes me as well and I'm glad that I was there to experience those which at present is just in the imagination. The real ones are those born before 90's.
We witnessed the change that was and is still going on a exponential rate which doesn't have any boundary and is also limitless. Let's go point wise cause it would be better I suppose so here are those things:-
1) We were mostly outdoor devoting our soul in the mud. We ran, we stumbled and fell, we had scratches( emergency relief was to use our spit) still we ran, we jumped, we rolled, it felt like we were outside the bird cage. I'm not saying that the current ones are inside, we were even more free.
2) We witnessed the landline(table telephone) those buttons pressed separately or a circle like ring done to make telephone. Phone was taken from one room to other to talk privately which most of time everyone was busted.😂😂
3) Mobile was the most amazing thing ever discovered, which was most expensive also simcard as well followed by different upversion of the model and now some are still considered best ( Nokia 3300).
4) We saw how difficult photo was to be printed from the negatives. The pile of photo albums along with bundles of negatives. That was 90's
5) The television was not like now a days. It was a big treasure and few channels were there and about the cable, there was no such thing. The antennas were tightened with long sticks or bamboo and was on the terrace and every now and then it used to be adjusted so that the channel would be clear.
6) The environment was much more clear and it's beauty could be reflected on almost everything.
7)Owning a cycle was a big thing. Another would be "MARBLES". Those children with the most would be the leader which also applied for the miniature version of cards(the one with WWE wrestlers) and there would be match and we used to return home with pockets full of it.
8)There was not much traffic jam. It felt like heaven unlike now a days *sigh.
These are some of the points I highlighted here.
Everyone's more points and opinion is appreciated..
A treacherous life
Everyone is going through "LIFE" full of something good or bad now and then but what if I say there are still people who has been betrayed by the life itself since birth. That might shock you but most disturbing fact is they are unable to do anything better and even if they have options some might be bound by other reasons.
Everyone is well aware about genetic diseases and if not well, they are those present even before taking step on the world.
Let's say about one of those, the common one.
Some might have guessed already but for other I'll say it's "Thalassaemia"
It's a blood disorder present since birth, yeah it's hereditary and not only sometime but mostly it sends the chills down the spine.
There's a boy whom I met just yesterday, it has not been even 24 hours and still that face is right in front of my eye.
That tiny body with mask( of course it's due to the pandemic"corona") without sleepers with small hand and feet age about 4 years I suppose with that innocent eyes, with the cute smile doesn't know whats happening around him and what he was going through.
He was staring at me and my passive reflex towards child I saluted him and surprisingly he saluted me as well.
As a human being what we wish " A healthy life full of joy" but unfortunately he might be happy but he will not cause he will have to face problem further. Not only once or twice but many times. He'll not be 💯 alright like the other guys. He's on the brink of infection everytime.
Although the preliminary treatment is there but still is a bit difficult for his family cause they are poor. They are the family from a rural area with poor family background. His parents working to hardly feed their family and on top of that this unexpected event they had to go through.
For the absolute treatment is beyond their reach at all. It's just in the imagination cause it's still even out of league for middle class family.
After they left, just praying that little child might get enough of what life has to offer to him.
Hardwork and is it worth??
Everyone knows what hardwork is and most of it believes and devotes themselves but still in the world there are people even among us who doesn't like to put effort.
So is it worth??
Let's see an example and you decide yourselves that whether it is worth or not?
As everyone knows that the most basic thing for survival is food and are grown in field.
Let's say there's a farmer family. His job is to collect the appropriate seed according to the area where he lives, the soil quality, the availability of water for irrigation, the atmosphere, the humidity and many more.
What he does is he puts an effort for the day zero itself. He is determined that he will cultivate a certain crops and will feed his family along with the people around his locality or his country or the world itself when it is exported.
He first does is makes the the field ready for plantation, he plants the seed then adds water and natural or industrial made insecticide or pesticides according to the demand and he does this not a day or two. It's a long process that demands non-stop effort along with his vision that " after this step there's this and so on" he does it day by day, weeks, months.
But sometime everything doesn't goes according to plan and due to environmental factors he gets sad. Maybe due to weather change or climate, heavy rainfall more than required or less than how much is required, or cattle grazing and many more. So his crops is destroyed.
Then what he does is starts the process and it goes on and on, it doesn't stops a min or hour or day and he's constantly putting his effort.
Finally the day comes when he harvest the crops, he feeds his family and sells them and brings necessary things for himself, his family and also the field cause his field is where he puts his hardwork and he gets his prize.
Ultimately he gets that happiness that satisfaction, that smiles that's more than any thing cause he spent his every drop of sweat for that particular day.
So giving effort in doing something is always worth. It's never late to start from zero. Even a millionaire or billionaire started from zero and they are at their post cause of those sleepless night, those effort that they keep doing what they loved. And it came to them.
So YES, HARDWORK PAYS AND ITS WORTH MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD.
Empathy
Everyone might be familiar with this word but if haven't then let's imagine what it might be and what it means.
Simply, it's sharing of other feeling. What does that mean??
Let's say among a friend circle everyone is going through tough time now or often. During the conversation accidentally someone might say something harsh or does action which upsets the person listening to the conversation. Which might add upon the tough times s/he is passing through which pushes them further backward and making them even more difficult to their day by day activities.
Let's say what if during conversation before speaking or doing such a action a few second pause was taken!!
That few seconds is something sometime leads to people making a pause and thought appears to be rushing at a greater speed saying"what if I might say something and it might affect them. What if I did something and they might be hurt?"
At that particular moment a person unknowingly "keeps him/herself on that person shoes and tries seeing the world" That what is called Empathy and the person are called Empaths.
Empaths are those person who are found rarely and they are like the gem hidden in the dirt. They're hard to find but they are around us.
Just try for once keeping oneself on the other person's shoe and try seeing the world, there's both warm and cold feeling that passes at the same time. And that is when we can open a another gate that has been blocking ourselves from reaching even further heights.
Love❤️❤️
The word itself Pierces heart and mind ✌️
So what is love?
Everyone has different point of view and people approaches differently.
Love is let's say giving a piece of oneself to other and cherishing it for whole life.
I know you all might say what are you saying??🤔🤔 Let me explain in brief.
Love is giving one's own a piece of feeling to other and finding happiness in it. When a person says "I love you" it means that a person has given a piece of himself/herself to their better half and making sure that it stays happy. And guess what that little piece of oneself is more than enough to make them happy.
For instance we go for date/dinner and we enjoy the time with the other half and we do but what if I say 99 out of 100 part is from the better half and that 1 part is ones ownself and which after combine makes a perfect 100.
That's what love is and is a very big word. Only those who are committed should only use this words cause it acts a driving force enabling the greater heights in life also downfall. It acts as a gentle push that everyone wants while achieving success and which also denotes "I was there for you, I am here for you and I will be there for you standing by your side watching and helping you in the every aspect of life"
So Love is that feeling, that force, that lever which is unmeasurable anywhere.
Depression
What is depression??
Everyone might have heard this term and most people are familiar with it and almost everyone goes through this phase.
Let us suppose there's a well with water in it and people are walking around it. People walk around and around and days goes by months and years. Till the person is walking or observing the well then he is happy and is enjoying his life. But once he jumps that's the point when we can say the person is starting to show the signs of depression or is depressed.
No one knows how deep is the well as it varies from person to person. Some might have deep well and some might have shallow. The depth of the well can be considered as an expression to see the level, the person is depressed.
There are two outcomes of depression the good one and the bad one. Good one would be that person is recovering and is happy that means he has successfully climbed out the well and is enjoying his life once again.
The bad one would be the worst and which no one wants.
As everyone knows that well has bottom and that's the most disturbing part cause when people as being in depression tends to accumulate and it unknowingly pulls towards the bottom that's the point where people thinks of giving up their life cause they don't see the light anymore. The give up on the hopes and only sees the darkness ahead.
But light always beats darkness similarly a helping hand is enough to pull the people from the well. As the person sees the hand and tends to grab it they slowly comes up and finally when it's holded tightly they're out and it's the best thing that could happen to a person..
What people needs during this phase is just a hand, a hope that they couldn't see. And a best way is to listen to their problems. Just listening is enough cause they feel secure that someone is their to listen to my problem and that more than enough for a person to be back again...😁😁
I tried to explain it in a simple way..
Hope you all liked it.. any feed back is appreciated 😁😁;-)
Top of the world^_^
Ever wonder what top of the world feels like????
Everyone goes through hectic times everyday maybe once or more and cause of which we all are who we are don't you think??
At the end of day for instance at night after dinner when we go to the terrace and just lie down or sit on the wall watching what's around us.
Let's say the bright full moon blessing it's light for us in the clear sky with stars twinkling, the sound of the wind passing our ears and hitting us extracting the exhaustion, the anger, the frustration or whatever we all are going through that time, and at the same time friends/relatives or anyone beside us enjoying that what the nature offered us to the fullest gives us the feeling of being at the "TOP OF THE WORLD".
There might be times at that particular moment when every thoughts will pass our heads and our mind Wondering everywhere but we all will find that one particular second where unknowingly we end up giving up ourselves to the nature and in return it gives us more than what we could afford.
That's what is called top of the world where even for a split second we just can't forget and feel the nature communicating with us and we with the nature.
What I went through..
I'm a different person than almost everyone around me. I find positive in every aspect and constantly filling myself till date so that I could get rid of the negativities.
As everyone might have heard of yin and yang or seen the logo of it. If not Google it..
The white portion denotes the positive and within the positivity there is always negative which is the universal law. Even though there is black within the white why not focus on the white and make ourselves better person.
Like I said I have been and still am the same person who I really am. I tried changing myself but it lead me towards destruction and since then I have taken a step back and focused on who I was.
What life taught me ?? That I got to know after I experienced and what people have done to me and I'll list it below:-
1) Always hurt people who give you their 100% trust.
2) Brain wash good friends so that we can manipulate them for ones benefit
3) Always kick or hurt good friends so that they can't backfire you the same way
4) Cheat on good people so that you can fulfill your wish
5)ALWAYS USE INNOCENT PEOPLE FOR PROFIT AND DITCH THEM
Still there are more but it makes me sad after going through all those points as I have endured that and faced that..
I know I was being kind and generous and helping but it stabbed me and was left in miserable state.
After that I started recollecting myself and building who I really was but while doing so I didn't let go the real me that was buried under those harsh things and now at present I'm on my feet again understanding the world better and still viewing the world as that one person who always thought this place could be a better place than it is at present.
I learned and still learning other people by standing on their shoe as an empath and Wondering how they work and wondering "If they could view the other person's suffering and not doing what I had to go through" maybe one day this chain could become longer and people be understanding each other..
It's always nice to feel and observe what other people might be going through cause no matter where are they from or how they live everyone has even if a small portion in their heart they have "love and respect" for other which I hope will one day will make us understand each other and help each other in need😁😁.
It's raining ;) :)
It's been about a week the environment seemed hotter than usual. Everyday after waking up for about 10 minutes it was refreshing but later it was frustrating. The day was getting hotter which I was expecting to be after around a month as it was the time when every year we all used to just lie around doing almost nothing. Even if we just walked from one room to another we used to lie on friends bed and pretended that bed was mine..
As I'm a student and living in a hostel I have to go out every three or four times in a day for everything.
The days were there when breakfast seemed to be tasting bland and I couldn't enjoy the taste that I used to get in different dishes that were presented in front of me. Even the tea seemed off and it made me more depressing. In the afternoon all I wished was to be under the shower and just feel the coldness of the water running down my spine.
Almost everyone was having trouble taking nap in the afternoon and not only that, in the night there was no wind at all, the leaves seemed still and it was that period where the time seemed to have Frozen and waiting to resume once again..
But today as I woke up miracle was upon the nature sleeve and it was bestowed upon me along will all the people around me.. "There was RAIN"
Yes yes yes. The earthy smell was there once again, the wind also supported the rain and the cold breezed struck my hand and legs and it was mesmerizing.. This was what we all wanted a nice morning that would refresh and reenergized every human being and animals on planet Earth.
And now its drizzling and it seemed to get better making the environment start from the cycle once again...
Thank you for reading.. Though it's my first time writing. Will try sharing thoughts from here on.
@Diwas