01. Remember, everything has an end
Nothing on earth is permanent. Everything has a beginning and an end. Bad times and failures are no exception. If you have had a bad time, think about it, haven't you had a bad time before?
They too have passed at one time. It will too. Think all the time, how bad a situation you have been before. Just have to be patient. And at the same time you have to believe that something good is waiting ahead.
02. Mental modeling
If you've been thinking for a while about a better future, or what your life will be like after a bad time - think and imagine - you'll see a lot better. Once you imagine things, you will find the inspiration to make them come true. This method is called mental modeling.
There is no such thing as a mental modeling approach to working under stress or solving problems from normal to bad.
No matter how bad your condition is, forget about everything at a certain time of the day and just imagine a beautiful future and what life would be like if you were cut off from a bad situation. If you do this for a while, you will realize for yourself that you are being inspired to move forward.
You can read another article about mental modeling.
03. Find out the cause of the bad situation or failure, and work with confidence
Any bad situation or failure is actually the problem of our life. There are two sides to all the problems in the world. One, the cause of the problem; Two, problem solving.
No matter what problem you are in, there must be a reason behind it. Maybe the reasons aren't well thought out.
In this case, think about the causes of the problem in a very cold head. If necessary, be completely alone for a while, and think. Once you get the root causes, think about how to solve the problem. Plan with the solution, and start working on it.
It may seem that your problem will not be solved. Or you may think that the plan you have made will not solve this problem.
But don't pay attention to these thoughts. Keep working for the solution. Remember, sitting still will not solve the problem. So it is better to try. And by trying this, you will find the inspiration to move forward by leaving the problems and failures behind.
Maybe the first attempt won't solve your problem. But believe me, if you try, everything is possible. Attempting in this way, at some point you will see that you have overcome the bad situation.
04. Look at role models, talk, and avoid frustrated ones
You may not know how many successful and happy people around you have come this far.
Maybe you tried 2-3 times and failed. Now everything seems meaningless to you. Looks like your life has failed.
But find out, the ones you want to be like, or the best successful people in your field - many of them have failed more than you. They have reached today's stage by dealing with a situation worse than yours. When you know these, you will see that a different kind of inspiration is being born inside you.
If you look at the world's most successful people like Jack Ma, Elon Musk, Thomas Alva Edison or Steve Jobs, you can see how much success can be achieved through bad times. The history of success is actually full of success stories of successful people.
If you know someone who is most successful in your field of work - ask them for advice.
Most of the time we feel embarrassed, hesitant to ask for help or advice. But to be honest, most successful people want to help others succeed. If you want to tell him the story of his failure, and how he overcame these failures - he will tell you with an open mind, chances are high. It can be one of the best inspirations to move forward in bad times.
If you know someone, talk to them directly. If not here's a new product just for you! You will find out a lot about them - something you may not have thought of before. These will inspire you tremendously.
And of course avoid the company of negative and frustrated people. There are some people who get frustrated for no reason. They think everyone is depriving them, they are not to blame for their bad condition.
The less you approach such people, the better. In bad times they will try to weaken you by talking about frustration.
On the other hand, if you have positive and successful people with you, they will always give you hope and encouragement. As a result, you will be inspired to overcome failure and move forward.
05. Think about your true passion
People often do things to be good or big in the eyes of others, or to keep pace with others, which is not really their own passion. What many do not realize is that he is actually studying or working on something other than his own passion.
Your true passion may be with chemistry, but depending on the needs of the age, you are studying physics or law. People trapped in this trap often get frustrated. Everything is fine but nothing feels good. In such a situation you have to think very deeply about the place of your own true passion. Then you have to run after that passion. Only then will you find true inspiration in life.
07. Love the work
Author Charles Duhig has researched many successful businessmen, generals, politicians, writers, artists in the world - successful people can do their job in any situation.
Even if they are not in the mood for work, they sit at work. Forced to concentrate on work. Even if the quality of work is bad, don't stop working. They know that if you work, you will be in a good mood at some point, and if you work, you will get rid of any bad situation.
Many people lose their motivation to work because they are frustrated when their work results are bad. As a result, many potential initiatives have failed.
If you love the work as well as the results, you will find that you are inspired to move forward even if there is a temporary failure at work. For this, first choose a job or career that you enjoy working. And you have a passion for that work. Only then will you be able to love work, and in bad times you will actually be able to stay busy.
07. Pray
When faced with a difficult situation or failure, prayer can be the best way to be inspired to move forward.
When you are in a bad situation, if you regularly ask forgiveness and help from the Creator, the state of mind changes a lot. If you pray regularly in such a situation, you will see that little by little the light of hope is shining deep in your mind. Even if self-confidence or inspiration is completely lost, it will come back as a result of prayer.
07. Start the day in a positive way
Hal Erlod's Miracle Morning is one of the most popular and acclaimed books on self-development to date.
This book talks about a few morning habits that helped Hal to recover from the worst of his life (bankruptcy, cancer).
If a man wakes up every morning and prays for a while, then reads some of the positive book, or listens to the positive speech; As well as saying something good for his own purpose and imagining something beautiful about today or his future, but in a few days he will have a different kind of inspiration.
If you start the day with a holy and positive attitude, it will work in you throughout the day. And you will become more optimistic and work to change your situation.
No matter how bad you are, there will be an indomitable motivation to move forward in your mind, and his days will start to change.
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Appendix:
Inspiration is something that can give a person the courage to come back even from the brink of death. No matter how bad the situation in life, if we have the motivation to move forward, it is possible for everyone to get out of that situation.
Most of the time, those we admire in life have gone through worse situations than we may be the going through.