On the Earth, every living being have their own kinds of problems in their lifetime .But one thing we have to know is people are related to eachother and their problems too. We suffer because of some factors we care more about .

We just give tons of advice to people around us regarding problems .we teach them how to solve them. But in real when it comes to yourself, we panic, be aggressive and show our weak decision.

Every one gets into problem. But until and unless you are a leader, manager, head of the family Or C.E.O then you are less in problems solving capacity .I mean to say that when you become responsible or take risk in your hand, it is obvious that you get into problems and you find the way out of it. They better know how to deal, how to create and how to convince more. They don't discriminate they treat equal. Because they better know the policy.

Here are few points that i have taken into account to solve the problems of my life.

First, don't blame people about the incident

Most of the time we start blaming people around for causing the problems. We should know that problems are like bullet fire. It can fire you any time. So be ready to show your calmness towards it. Show your defensive power. When some one creates problem in your family. Keep calm and say, we are going to solve it together'. During the problem solving phase take the person with you. Show him every angle of it. Example. sad,Emotional , law and its action , your suffering . Next time he will never try to create such problems or if he creates again he will know how to deal it better. So, blaming someone is a waste of time. It is better to teach him a lesson.There is one saying;

"Problems are like washing machines, they twist us, spin us and knock us around.But in the end we come out cleaner, brighter and better than before."- (@ Pinterest)

Second, solve it or leave it to right time

As we all know every thing on the earth are suffering from at least one problem. The problem can be solved or sometimes cannot be. If it is in your hand you can solve it but if that's too far to solve than just leave it. But at least you can try your best. We can see human being have become more advanced then before. They try to solve every kind of problems on the earth and universe. They have dealt from ancient times.But sometimes while solving one problem they create another. For example; we can see motor vehicles, gas, heater, electricity are created for easiness but all these easiness have created global warming and poisonous atmosphere around. Giving priority to the problem is a good thing but it's consequences is also the most essential part of it. I just want to tell here is, if we want to solve the problem forcefully than that can harm to other side. If that is not in your hand just live it and grow your positive patience power. The best example can be Covid-19 case.Every doctors , scientist are trying their best to overcome this virus. But it has been 1 year and more they could do nothing . We the normal people can follow the safety measures to keep ourselves safe and use vaccine and lastly pray to god and leave it for god and the time . So,It is the best way we can heal our pain.

Third, Test on yourself

What matters in your life is self respect and self confidence. What others think about you doesn't matter. So, when people start saying that you cannot solve it. Just work on it and show them that they were wrong. But do you think you should prove yourself every time? No, not at all. sometimes they may challenge you or force you to do wrong. We need to know right and wrong too. Every problems come to test you or make you wiser than before. Problems test your arrogance , patience, hard work and your wisdom. You have to balance everything and pass the test. Problems are your exam papers that tests your maturity.Find the effective ways to solve it without harming others. Flash back how did that happened , investigate and finally find the mistake and solve it. Act smart and find out the logical reasons while proving it.

Fourth, problems are created

Problems doesn't come with no reason. Some where in past someone must have created it so finally it emerged today. So keep in mind, today will be your past tomorrow . If today is better then tomorrow will be the best day for you. So, tomorrow if you do not want to create problem then work hard, speak better,watch your words, do positive work and sow the fruitful work today . A very minor example that is familiar to every one is telling your problems to every one around you. Your such innocence can harm you back because here most of the people do not care about it. And always take in mind that people feel relief by listening your problems. Because they might think that their problem is smaller than yours. So, they keep sharing your problems to others too. Finally at last the same problem creates another problem.

Fifth, come in to action

I want to share you one small incident.

My cousin Helen was so sick 2 weeks ago. I went to visit her and ask her how did she felt so sick suddenly ? She replied" my exam is after 1 month. What do i do? There is a lockdown and i could not even call my friends to group study? I am so much worried so i kept thinking about my exam and couldn't help my self with few subjects . So i suddenly felt low and i don't know how i became so serious. She said. I asked her " have you made your routine ? And did you call your friends on zoom study? And did you inform your teacher about the problem? How many times do you practice yourself ? So, these were my questions one by one. But she was in confusion. She finally cried and hug me and said I got panic so i couldn't get in to action. I thought I will fail.I m sorry i will work on it.

If we keep thinking about one problem then it is obvious that we are creating more problems from it. So, try to find its solution rather than overthinking it.

So, the problems are just an outcome of our past mistakes. Nobody possess a perfect life. Some people worry about it and few people know how to deal with them.In my view,

A problem is a spice that makes our life more clear, filtered and uplift your experience certificate . A hard time always shows our true friends, true relationship and power within us. If our life were without problems, it would be too bore.

I don't mean getting into problem is good. What i mean here is problem is normal.It happens to everyone. But being a homo sapien, an intellectual human being. We should act in the same way. We should be able to solve others problems too.

Thank you readers