Giving is just an awesome idea to melt someone's sad heart or mood. Let's say it's the key to happiness to both givers and takers.
Giving what others want
Undoubtedly when ever you want to improve your relationship just give them what they want. For example,If your children are feeling alone and unconfident,give them time and effort which can change their confidence level. Giving can be both materialistic and emotional. Becoming generous is not just an art but maintaining a good environment around yourself. To be a giver it's an easy thing but many people think that they don't have any thing to give others. They have learned that giving means money,food, clothes and other necessities. But every people on this earth is not hungry and poor. It's a great job to help them such needy people. But still beyond such needs people might be seeking for others help. They might be seeking for friends, some others for freedom, some others for love and trust, some for suggestions and advice, some for support, some for justice and many others necessities. So it is necessary to understand them and give them what they want.
Heals pain
The definition of pain can vary accordingly on earth for every living beings. One has its own needs and requirements. Human have its own and other creatures have their own. But giving and caring nature can be found somehow. A generous human acts like real human. He /she knows how to heal one's pain. They know what to give and when to give and how to give. They can forget all the sorrows and forgive. They can choose good and show up their kind gesture and heals pain. Healing of emotional pain is the best way one can give you. But it's hard to do when understanding level is low. To heal others pain means you should understand the same person deeply and thoroughly. Healing of emotional pain is like making others free from their problems and giving them way to find their lost life.
It's free
Emotions and feelings are free. They are the reflection of your deeds. What you do is what you get back. To be kind to others is free of cost. Being kind is the best way of giving. Your kindness towards others is the best way to keep your soul free and happy. If you feed poor once, you will be amazed seeing their happiness and you will be motivated towards creating a giving world. If you can change one's mood with your simple reaction then why don't you do that? Why you are so selfish or greedy to give your efforts to others? The world has become so expensive nowadays so the people's time. They charge money to meet someone by making them buy food or drinks. Isn't that insane? Why don't you meet in a park with a water bottle? Is it necessary to gift a girl friend or friend to see them happy ? Why don't you help them emotionally with their pain and needs? It's really free.
Gifts
Gifts are just an awesome idea to win someone's heart. But few of the cases doesn't go with the idea. I mean gifting a valuable thing has become a trend. But still when ever people think of gifts, they imagined such materialistic things. Gifts can be so expensive that it can build a good relationship between two nations. To create a strong bond between anybody or to correct their relationship,they should gift eachother. Gifting is not only for rich people but gifts can be your dedication towards the person. A single flower or a beautiful kind word can make someone's day. Nowadays a trend of girlfriend and boyfriend has increased so much that the value of money and it's power has increased high. One can gift expensive items and make a desired girlfriend. But I have seen in poor families that a guy quarrels with his mother and demand for pocket money, expensive bike to showoff. Such people actually need help for their actual realization in life. Otherwise such people will make a hell. Giving means not for just show off but it actually has to mean it to others.
Nature is the best giver
When you want to see the giver,just see everywhere in the nature around. A soil is giving you to plant food. Trees are giving you oxygen and fruits and even wood for your shelter. In the same way water sources, stones, animals, air, weather and many others natural sources are giving away free.Now a days one doesn't plant vegetables for himself rather he goes and earn money to buy it. In this way human are forgetting their duties towards nature. It's not only taking from nature but giving them too. If we don't care nature then nature will not care us back.They are also the best source of generosity from which we should learn more and more lessons.
Positive thinking
A generous man who kindly offers people is the best version of humanity. We have lost humanity in this 21st century. We should have a positive attitude and willingness to do anything towards others. It's not just for your self benefits but also for humanity shake. Human beings are the most intelligent among all living beings on earth. He should know how to balance every thing normally and positively. Negativity attacks negative things. Being a human he has a great sense in his head and a kind heart which can change the world's critical situation. But still people are behind the realisation that they can make the changes. Dependency level has increased so high that people have stopped believing oneself rather it is easy for them to believe other and blame it. It's easy to point others than taking responsibility oneself. So one should carry positive feelings, attitude and willingness to give others. If one realize this he can give lots of things to everyone.
So giving is just not giving but it should change one's mood,mind and life. The takers should be changed in such a way that he should be able to give others too.