For what is this? Why are violent events more and more recurrent?
The family has not been able to escape the scourge of violence that is undermining the world today, which is worrying since the family is the agent of development and change in all the novels of society, and we have to live stories daily Out of horror, a woman murdered her two daughters and then committed suicide, she left a letter that said, "I did not do it out of evil, but because I did not want my daughters to suffer the same as me or to go around without father or mother." The letter added "My husband always threatened to kill me and I was afraid that he would really do it and that my daughters would be left alone, that's why I do it myself." Since mothers are so tender with her children, these facts seem inadmissible, but a person with a high degree of anguish and despair and who feels cornered can commit any barbarism, interpreting it as the only solution to her problem.
This is the story of many women and fewer who are under the domination and control of a partner and / or an abusive father who, regardless of the damage they may cause to their family, want to maintain preeminence in the home by exercising violence and force.
According to statistics from the centers that support domestic violence, 98% of women are abused by their partners, in 10 to 20% of marriages there is violence in 40% of divorces there was physical cruelty. Death each month by these events in the USA, 5 out of 7 rapists witnessed sexual abuse in their childhood and one in 4 suicidal women also witnessed sexual abuse in their childhood.
From there we conclude that domestic violence is contagious, according to some experts in the field, 53% of adult offenders are people who were abused during their childhood.
This is because during the first years of life, it is when we develop the ability to feel compassion, appreciation for life or the ability to feel pain for other people, so if they are subjected in childhood to acts of violence they will not assimilate Such abilities and once adults will use brute force to resolve their conflicts; so the abused child becomes an executioner when he grows up and is always kept in the vicious circle of violence, which gives rise to a series of important psychological ailments upon reaching adulthood, such as chronic depression, multiple or strong personalities tendencies to alcoholism or drug addiction.
If we are immersed in this problem we must have enough esteem to prevent violence from taking over our homes and there in the town where you live, locate specialized houses that attend to these cases, where they can assist you, with people specialized in the matter; in the same way, the prosecution attends this type of case, where this would proceed when the aggrieved person issues his complaint to the police.
Having a good esteem is the criterion used by a large number of experts who also recommend that aggressive and passive people in these pictures of violence seek the help of experts and work with their self-esteem to learn to relate in an appropriate way. and so that they learn to value themselves; If you manage to take all these steps, you will discover your great worth as a person and you will not need to use brute force again to be respected and take your home forward and remember that only with love the greatest battles are won, as did the Nobel Prize of the Peace Mahatma Gandhi who managed to rescue his people against the might of England only by applying the poise, serenity and love that today's world is sorely needing.
Let us always remember to educate our children well, let us be aware of them, they require our attention, screaming does not help, abuse much less that hinders peace and creates intolerable people, closes thoughts, creates insecure people.
