Answers to some relationship questions you must know- FOR HER!

My Thought: How do I know if he loves me?

Answer: The gift of discerning the love of a person is not overall to the thoughts of fear our hearts carry. A lady going into a relationship may want clearance on the decision she is making to be sure she won't fall a victim of broken heart.

There are many ways a guy shows love to a lady, i.e. when she is THE ONE.

• Firstly, he profess his love to you

• He does what he says

• He shows commitment to her and the relationship

• He creates time out of his busy schedule

• He prioritize every of her needs and desires above all else

• He supports her emotionally

• He respects her and avoids anything that would hurt her

My Thought: How do I know he is in for a long term relationship?

Answer: Most people who are seeking marriage desires a relationship that would lead to one. In a relationship but want to know if it will last?........

• He introduces you to his friends

• He introduces you to his parents and the rest of his family

• He is not ashamed being with you (walking, hands held together, talking, laughing along the street, taking you out, gisting in the bar, etc.)

• He tells you his plans

• He talks about the future with you. He includes you in his future plans.

My Thought: Why is he distant from me?

Answer: He doesn't hate you! Some men or men generally need space at some point in time. They tend to pull away from families and even friends to process their emotions, to get their independence, to deal with stress or pressure from work. Most times they prefer to be alone or to hang out with their own peers to unwind their stress and maintain a healthy balance between relationship and personal life.

My Thought: What does a man see as love?

Answer: Men have ego and a man's love is RESPECT. Show him respect, Honor him at all times.

My Thought: How do I handle jealously in a relationship:

Answer: Jealously is non-avoidable in a relationship. But one thing you must know is that Jealousy is his thing and not yours. Make him desire you every time, flaunt a little but not enough to break the relationship, give him some distance, get a life for yourself, hang out with your friends, .......let him miss you; and he will be jealous thinking that you are having a good time without him, that will make him want to get your attention back and a relationship anew is awesome!

My Thought: What are the important qualities to look for in a man

Answer: Many people tend to look at physique as the most important aspect of qualities to find in a partner. While that is important, it is necessary to consider these:

• His Character.

• His relationship with his mother.

• His idea about love

• His future plans- does he aspire to succeed and build a better home.

• Is he trustworthy?

• Does he value communication and quality time.

• What is his love language

• Is he a supportive partner?

• Does he value you and treat you well.

My Thought: How do I deal with argument or conflicts in my relationship

Answer: One thing is for certain, differences must occur in every relationship. But if two persons scream at each other while quarrelling, there will be no one listening and most especially, if you have an argument with your guy, it is best to be quiet will he shouts, because challenging him/men makes him to bring out his Man-defense like he is fighting his fellow man/opponent.

Therefore, allow him to pour his hurt and cool off and later he will come back apologizing.

Hi, I know you have even more questions and don't worry, it is natural but I trust this little guide will help your relationship with your partner thrive.