Why love loses its glow during marriage

LOVE LOSES its sparkle,when couples begin to get complacent. Affection runs dry and sex is a chore if you have it at all. But there is an easy way to get back into the swing of things. When you play music together and dance together sometimes—dancing is the perfect activity to strengthen your relationship.

Most of the times I hear some couples say they love each other but they don't know why things became different than when they said, “I do.”

What happens between the joyful wedding day,and the boring,dull or shallow existence of married life daily, filled with bills, diapers, and endless decisions about the schedule, laundry, and dinner? Why do so many couples feel happy on their wedding day and so joyless or bored all the days after? Like the happiness before their wedding and during their wedding is always out of this world,they feel joy in them,they dance and dance and dance thinking everything will be fine and then boom after the wedding they don't feel the attraction they felt for each other before,their everyday life becomes boring and dull,they don't feel each other's vibe again.

Most of the problem comes from lack of constant intimacy, friendly lifestyle and relational intimacy. Number one area couples lose their love life is in courtship and romance. We need to recapture the fun and enjoyment of when we were courting and make it more real in our marriage. Alot of couples play and play during courtship,they weren't too big to play,they act like kids and run around the house,they tickle themselves or throw pillows but as soon as they get married and they loose interest in playing,they start acting like they weren't used to it especially when they now have kids,they forget completely about how they started and how everything was for them.

The question we should ask is, how can we rekindle the romance in our marriages today? To rekindle the romance, we have to do the things we did from the beginning.

The things we did when we were courting,when we weren't married yet,the candle nights, the gift we shared,the countless dates,beaches we went to,the surprises for our lover,the special delicacies,these are the things we need to go back to....

Infact have seen some couples call themselves pet names before marriage but after marriage they start calling themselves daddy and mummy, making them to neglect the Genesis,how they started back then ...

To some it is about clothes, they dress lovely and charming when they are still single or courting but as soon as they get married,they get loosed,they have forgotten that their spouses love them that way when they first met before they got married and they loose the charm just because they think these is the standard of the society not minding the standard of their husbands or wife,it happens mostly to women,you see them dressing charming before wedding but after wedding they start dressing like old women, how do you expect that love to continue to glow,even if the man loves you he will still want you to be charming always for him.

So these are my few points why some marriages go sour,I hope you find This article helpful.