Let your success speak,not you
Alot of times people rush to post what they are not or what they are achieving gradually online,they just expose themselves to the world when they are not even there yet, the Yoruba proverbs says that "Ti isu eni ba ta she la boje" this simply means that"if one's yam is done you will cover it and eat". You won't expose the yam to alot of people before eating,when you are now full they will know that you have eaten.
People expose their success to the world even before making it, don't let them see you when you have not even gotten there,let me give an illustration;
A got married to B and for three years they couldn't give birth because B couldn't get pregnant,they kept praying and trusting God for it,one day B realized that she missed her period and decided to test herself,A went to get testing kit and B tested herself and realized that she was pregnant,she told A about it and he was so happy to the extent that when he got to the office he told everyone that his wife is pregnant already, imagine just 2weeks pregnancy and everyone already knew and someone from his office called B and congratulated her and she was surprised how everyone knew she is pregnant,she asked A about it and A said he told everyone in the office,B was so disappointed in him,how will you tell anyone about it when it's not even visible yet,do you need to tell anyone before they know about it? After one week the pregnancy came down ,and they were back to square one,B couldn't stop crying because she warned her husband enough.
See the result of not calming down or covering your yam when it's done before eating,it can cause alot of havoc for the person if they don't know how to keep quiet about their success.
Your success should speak by itself when it's the due time not you opening up everything,strike that deal first,execute it first before spreading news about it,when your husband buys a car or a house you tell everyone,when you have a sweet home you tell everyone,all those people you tell everything about your good times will be there to see your down fall,they will be ready, Another yoruba proverbs says that "ki ise gbogbo alangba to daku dele ninu nro" meaning (not all lizard facing down have stomach upset),not everyone have good intentions towards you,not everyone wants you to be successful,not everyone wants to see you achieve something,there are a lot of haters out there that all they want is your downfall,fake it for them ,don't let them see the real you,don't speak by yourself let your achievement speak by itself.
Even if you are not happy smile,don't let them Know the reason why you are not not happy,not everyone deserve to know what's going on in your life, your life should be a secret for you. Let your success speak and not you speaking for your success.
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