A man who deserves a submissive woman

Recently the issue of submissiveness seem to be raising dust and I understand why it's suddenly becoming so controversial.

It is naturally expected of a woman to be submissive to men,we do not need to worry about that but we need to address something....

*HOW SUBMISSIVE ARE YOU SIR TO THE AUTHORITIES IN YOUR LIFE?*

_Can your leaders, pastors,lecturers and elderly ones vouch for you?_

Pls note that Sisters no longer accept proposals from just anybody. They are beginning to watch as we pray.

The Marriage Committee might forget to ask you but can you stand among people and beat your chest that you won't be found guilty if you were weighed on the Scale of submissiveness?

When your mum tells you to wash the toilet before going out hope you don't usually pick up your bag and walk out of the door telling her to send someone else? That is so common among men, thinking it's the ladies work to wash the toilet and not theirs, hope you are submissive to your parents?

When the President said everyone must wash their plates after eating during an outreach hope you weren't part of those who yourself as a Big boss and dropped it for others to wash?

Brothers will even be gisting after eating and waiting for those who brought the food to come and pack the plates themselves inspite of the Papa's instruction.

Before you say your younger Sister isn't submissive did you check your own Character? Or do you think it's easy to live with someone who doesn't respect anybody? It's not easy to live with someone who regards no one,try it yourself and see how it's going to be.....

some people are praying to marry a Good woman, God keeps shaking His head because it's difficult for Him to give a Lady He has invested heavily on to an unbroken man,a man who is not ready, a man whose journey has been on pride,a man who thinks he can't do any house chores for the lady at home,a man who thinks it's the woman job.

Can any man say Lord give me a woman with the Same character I have? Can you do that? Do you want that same woman as you? Can you stand boldly and say that?

A woman might endure an unsubmissive man because the society has trained her to take whatever is being thrown at her but have you not read that God Himself said "Stiffness of heart" is similar to the sin witchcraft?

Pls let us leave behind this African beliefs, some of what our fore-fathers has done then and believed in is not working for this our generation,let us do everything in love.

I hope you find this article useful...