Mental reflection in the dark
This is a serious problem since the individual whose reputation, knowledge, and right to exist are put in jeopardy because the decision that may be made against them is based on the image of another person who is the source of the wrongdoing.
The simple reason is that if your life has been full of contentment, tranquility, love, and understanding, then those emotions, feelings, and thoughts will be marked only by that. In this case, every time you make a decision, the reflejo of your interior mental will always be of the same.
To avoid your mental reflection being the cause of a bad decision, you must first think carefully about what you are going to do and then devote yourself solely to it; you cannot use previous experiences as the basis for a project, such as how bad you felt because of something that happened; this is especially useful if the decision you are contemplating makes you feel bad because you are unaware of who you are dealing with.
It's easy to equivocate if you have fears, regrets, or dissatisfactions from previous times, and it's even easier if you know who you should make decisions with.
How many people are depressed as a result of a simple fact?
They do not learn from their mistakes.
The problem is that it does the same thing every time, that is, if one time it erred in the other, it will not do it again, but it has the case that every time it takes a step, it always ends up doing the same thing, and each time it hunde more, even leading to a decision, and that this time it is correct, that they will not believe in anything or anyone.
I've met women with five children who go through life together, counseling the younger ones on important decisions to make. However, each child has different parents and never returns home.
Do you think they made the right decision? I'm not sure because they always end up equivocating.
What a difficult task it is to make a decision while the reflection of your inner self is there; even if you have all the predispositions to take the right step, you will not be able to do so because you will always be fixated on what you did wrong in the past. In certain cases, the reflection is directed at what those who have a family relationship might think.
This isn't necessarily a bad thing if family members have thoughts on the individual who, in this case, is their family; however, it is when the person who conducts the reflection bases it on "what the hermanos-as, fathers, and children would think."Last but not least, the friends and neighbors», which is the worst because they will not be by the person's side when the time comes.
What others believe does not have to affect you.
What is clear is that no one can abandon someone simply because they made a decision that did not suit them, that was not in their best interests in this case, and that it may be more because of what they say.
As a result, the question arises: Can my father or mother desert me or deprive me of love because I chose to follow my path because I believe it is the best? my brothers or sisters stopped being my family and stopped loving because I took my path according to what I think is the best, with more justification if I see it in gui?
It's completely crazy to give up being a part of a family and, even worse, to stop caring about someone else's decision. In my case, I have a daughter who made the decision to have a boyfriend, which didn't seem right to me in the least, but since it was her decision and not mine, she is responsible for the consequences.
Now, do you believe that the fathers, or in this case, the mother, have abandoned her because of their decision? Moreover, do they believe that her sister or brother pushed her to one side or that they stopped loving her because of what she did? In any case,So we did everything we could to avoid this, but when someone wants to do something, no one stops them, as simple as that.