Steps to Prosperity #11 - Forgiveness
Forgiveness is the key to staying clear!
Holding un-forgiveness will block prosperity like a tree in the road, obstructing your path of least effort/resistance.
Whether it's with yourself or with someone else, holding unforgiveness means you are identifying with the very thing you are holding a grudge about.
You become what you hold a grudge against.
For example, if you feel someone has done you wrong, the very thing you think they have done to you; you are identifying with and putting that vibration in your now!
You are going to set up experiences to match that state-of-being.
It is futile to hold unforgiveness, placing it in your now, and trying to manifest joy in your life.
The key is HONOR. Dis-honor is deadly! Dishonor is the step you take right before you experience a significant loss!
The reason you are supposed to honor your mother and father is because they are your first relationship. How you develop and interact towards your parents will determine a lifetime of experiences.
You either develop a habit of honor or dishonor to relate to your parents. It depends on your choice. Note the key word in the scripture, "Honor thy mother and father" is HONOR.
*Every lawsuit stems from a root cause of DISHONOR.*
*Every relationship that falls apart is because of DISHONOR.*
*Almost every time you experience a significant loss in your life, you can trace it to DISHONOR.*
Dishonor comes from forgiveness issues left unresolved.
Forgiveness is as simple as understanding that there is no right and wrong experience that happens to you until you see it that way.
Every time someone has done what you think is wrong, it can be looked upon with a different understanding. Remember this quote again:
"When an inner situation is not made conscious, it appears outside as fate."
- Carl Jung
Therefore, everything is phenomenon! It is neither good nor bad until you label it; putting your judgment on the situation.
If you are holding a grudge against someone or yourself, the way to release that grudge is to do the following:
01) Acknowledge the emotion that you feel, stirred up in your inner kingdom.
02) Say yes to the feeling and allow it to leave.
03) Choose a different BE-ING decision to relate to the
perceived problem differently.
In other words, take an ABC Break! Recognize that "It is Not It!".
When you change the way you look at things, things begin to change.
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Colossians 3:13
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." Matthew 6:14-15
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Ephesians 4:32