Damaging Heart

Today, young children are exposed to various kind of unhealthy treatments by adults, their friends and other young children who are older.

Some children grow up to be broken or depressed, all as a result of what they went through or what others put them through at their early age. It is pitiful when you see children like that, children who were so cute and beautiful but damaged on the inside.

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Every man or human at his young age is said to be kind, gentle and loving. But surprisingly at old age some people turn out to be so ugly, so mean and full of hatred. So what is the reason? Why do people who were so adorable when they were little children but turn out so corrupt and evil when they grow older.

The heart is delicate and shapeless organ at its initial stage. But it eventually grows into a certain shape in accordance with what kind of treatment and environment it is most familiar with. If the man's heart grows to be familiar with love, kindnes, honesty, happiness, generousity and all other kinds of good emotions and things, then the person will grow to be kind, full of love, honest, happy and generous.

But if the child was nurtured with the opposites like; hatred, cruelty, anger, lies etc. Then that is what he's going to grow up to be.

We must avoid saying harmful words to our little ones, when they hurt us–besides how could a child even hurt a grown person? If they misbehave we should say kind words to them and show them how wrong they are and what the consequences could be. We should not bully or scold them in a way that will allow them bury some pain within their heart.

Parents and teachers, there's a saying that what sticks with children the most is what their parents and or teachers say to them. If a child is not doing well in school don't hate and start the habits a attacking him or her with harsh words, words like; dumb, lazy or stupid. He is a child and a child believes anything his parents or teacher say to him. So if you call a child stupid, he is going to grow up believing he is stupid. If you call him dumb, he is going to grow up believing he is really dumb. And that is not good for anyone. He will grow up being depressed and damaged. And it is your fault as his teacher, as his parents.

A child copies what he sees other people do, especially what his elders are doing, so as an elder try to do good in the presence of your little ones, you're teaching them good indirectly. Because most children prefer to do what they see from others than to be told what to do.

If an adult is behaving in a dirty, and inappropriate manner in the presence of a little one, he is indirectly teaching him do be or do thesame. That is why you see kids acting and saying things that will make you wonder who in the world must have taught them so. They saw someone doing thesame and learned from them. It's unfortunate.

Conclusion

A child born around harsh parents and family, raised under harsh treatment. Is a heart under destruction.

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January 30.

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