let's explore our modern world, a world full of discrepancies and contradictions in those very relationships.
You can't just take and delete something from the list of available obligations without replacing it with something of equal value in the end. And since it so happened that we knew the obligations with the word "Family", then most likely the change in the concept itself ceased to work at the level of modern relations.
Let's temporarily assume that the concept of "Family" no longer exists, just as the classical institution of the family does not exist. And what remains in the end?
- Relations. But these relationships were not created for the sake of the family, since there are no those very obligations, since everyone has forgotten their true belonging to this word, cut off all ties with it.
Then what is the relationship for?
- In our modern world, there are 2 key things that motivate relationships:
Comfort and Needs
and
Money
What is the funniest thing, and that and that, somehow all the same are similar.
Money pushes to satisfy needs. Having extra money stimulates growth and craving for comfort.
But for a man and a woman, these things, as well as the aspirations for them, are very different. In the past, women were led. They were led into the future, they were satisfied with everything except lawlessness. And fortunately, our civilization has successfully overcome this moment.
That's just the existence of equal rights, equality, made women not driven, but neutral. In any science, it is well known that any neutral, inert state is transitional, and therefore temporary. So where did women continue to grow?
To answer this question. We need to understand what made the world of men masculine. Why men used to be at the source of progress, and could not stop until they reached its peak.
The masculine disposition is something interesting. Women do not understand men.
A man does not exist as an organism until he manifests himself. A man can prove himself in battle, and surpassing life's difficulties. Difficulties that others, including women, seem to be beyond the control of a person.
Is it possible to radically change the world, its views, the economy. The woman will say that it was created and will be eternal. The man will say - I will try.
Recklessness paints a man when he does not think rushes to solve a problem.
The desire to get hold of, pass, compete and fight for the right to be the first in something. All this makes a man cruel, rude, strict and disciplined, but not nice. All this determines masculine masculinity. What forces men to be rude and strong. Progress is built on blood. But blood does not have to be the enemy, it does not have to be a loved one, sometimes it is the blood of someone who strives for progress.
Nature has given men a special attitude to their lives. Attitude in form - I am not! But there are my things to do. My achievements.
This is why men can handle any crisis. Death does not bother as long as there is a striving for perfection.
We started out primitively, started cold, rude, scary. But we have grown above ourselves, we have become more civilized, but we do not concede to anyone in the right to become better than ourselves.
This is a real man. Offense is the best form of defense.
Now let's take a look at what has become of the men of the 21st century.
Interesting, isn't it ..
Men, by their custom, are usually less moral than women. They more often create a conflict and more often come out of it as a winner. It should be.
That is why it is so difficult for us to truly love. Most often, it is the craving for procreation that plays in us. Attraction. And we very often confuse these emotions with love.
But this is not her.
Women are more moral, more emotional. But sometimes they demand the same from a man who fights every day for his right to existence (and you already understood how) through deeds. And if he becomes kind, sympathetic, agreeable, as his woman demands, he will no longer be a man, he will not be able to survive in the form in which he is used to. A domestic cat will die out on the street, where its more cruel relatives live. In a world of rude, strong and immoral.
Therefore, the relationship between a man and a woman at home has undergone a kind of reform.
A man needs a woman to be needed by himself. Men do not enjoy giving themselves presents. A woman needs a gentle and obedient husband. The great contradiction arises already at this moment. But women cannot be re-educated by their nature, but men, having a great desire for self-improvement, can re-educate themselves. This became the reason that so many women became disillusioned with their men, since now they have already become Vodem. And many strong, tough and truly capable men are disappointed in marriages, because they are not ready to change themselves.
You may say, but isn't that what everyone was trying to achieve. Women definitely got their way ..
I will answer - the psychology of a woman does not allow her to experience satisfaction from achieving results. It is easier for men in this matter. Therefore, a woman is always in search of the best. A man knows how to limit himself to what has been achieved, when it is required. Having achieved complaisance from the male part of the population, women have achieved predictability, which they are not interested in. Every man has become very predictable. And we are distinguished by sharpness, we can do anything, whenever we want, because we want to.
The United States has made further adjustments to consolidate this result. Calling male muscularity toxic. And anything that is toxic, from the American point of view, is dangerous for close relationships. Instead of close relationships, Friendzone took all the places. Because it's easier that way. In the US, in general, they are trying to make everything easier, even what cannot be touched by default. But easier is not always better.
And families in the United States have practically ceased to exist. Almost all marriages have become of convenience. For a wonderful future in the company of a "kind" man and a strong, capable woman. We noticed how the roles changed.
And all because the desire to get out of the neutral state requires a sacrifice on behalf of morality. What defines a woman in our world has begun to disappear little by little. As well as the word "woman" itself.
Striving for excellence always sets masculine qualities. Strictness to oneself, discipline, rudeness. Because these qualities determine progress, and the desire to improve methods.
The peasants did not come from a conspicuous reznik to diplomacy right away, but this has created the world in which we live. Modern women have missed such an important phase of becoming on this path.
You may say, but the United States does not influence the world and world trends. All the most fashionable women's magazines originate from the USA. And modern women have become much more obedient when it comes to information obtained from their favorite magazines, blogs and publics. So whose attention do you think is now spreading, if not theirs.
And now let's take the younger generation, which is dependent on informational information. And yes, this is a disease of the 21st century, always be aware of something.
What should they do when they constantly hear that a man should listen to his woman, be useful, be economic, gentle, sensitive, obedient, but also be rich, wealthy, capable of sacrifices.
They will search for something that does not exist. Each of them will make the same mistake, because of which they will be disappointed in themselves, as in a woman of the 21st century. Taking the path of male domination. And what about men, boys?
- They will decide that they should not be men, they need to be at least someone suitable for women in order to be interesting to them. But the whole truth is that a man cannot be interesting to a modern woman. He must be strong and independent. He should not give a damn about the desires and needs of someone else, otherwise, such a man will not survive in the modern world.