#2nd September 26, 2021Unlike babies and kids, adults and or teens-turning to adult should cut their loud cries. The perk of being a baby is that you can cry out loud but that vanishes as soon as you age.
Well, crying out loud is kind of inappropriate (maybe) or weird among adults. Don't get me wrong but yeah, seeing a 30 year old woman/man crying louder and tossing and throwing tantrums and all is a bit weird for me. And for some also. Man up? Coz that is not how a grown up react to situation.
You know as we age, we lost few privileges and gain new ones. Childhood days are being tossed to the side as we come face to face with the real business-the real deal- the reality of adulthood, accountabilities and responsibilities.
Instead of playing and seeking to fill our superficial happiness, what we will be seeking is education, and then job later on. We are deem responsible in our every action as well. Once we do good, we will reap goodness and appreciation and when we do bad we will surely face our karma.
Adulthood, growing up, maturity, or whatever you call that gives us more responsibilities in life. More worries, failures, lessons and troubles/problems.
Inner battles
Outer ordeals
Outer battles maybe associated to a man vs. Man or man vs. Society. Inner battles are of course, directed to man vs. Himself. An inner fight against ourselves. It maybe the hardest that we will have to conquer or let that eat us, that is our choice.
Battles, are tiring. Inner battles are. As an adult, how should we deal with them? Maturely? how? Adults are seen to be grown ups. And grown ups should not let their emotions take over them. Emotions i mean, to feel weak. It is not a wise choice to succumb to sadness, worries and the best thing to do is to actually make an action to solve problems.
But as I have said, we are different in terms of way of coping up. Some are tough and some aren't. Some cry.
Loud.
And silent.
And silent crying is painful.
You know why? Because you can't even make a sound. Afraid that the world would turn even harsher to you. You can only hear your mental sobs. It is painful because you are not expressing out your pain but rather contain it more. Alone.
Silent crying because you are afraid to be heard. By who? By your parents ad knonw ones. Because they will not care but rather judge you and your overreaction. And judgement would be the last thing you want in the verge of silent crying.
Silent crying because that is the only thing that can make you feel better. Especially at night. When monster would attack you.
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