Be who you want to be, not what others want to see

This article is going to be a motivational article because I think many people like me sometimes lack motivation. Today, with the effect of social media, there is a very serious social pressure on us. The people around us are trying to put us into certain patterns, they want us to be like them. They claim that it's bad to be different, they expect us to be who they want to see, not who we want to be. DON'T BE!

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The people you see on social media are all copies of each other, as if they were photocopied. What good is an inauthentic body? Don't be yourself when you say we will follow certain trends.

Every human being is free, and none of us have to be molded into certain. We don't all have to look beautiful. We don't have to wear the most expensive clothes just because it's fashionable, or we don't have to be a fan of a band just because its song is so popular. If we're a mother, we don't have to raise our children according to certain patterns. We don't have to read world classics when there are dozens of fantastic novels.

Don't let people put you in certain patterns and squeeze your personalities. Do not allow the differences that make us who we are to be destroyed by some unjust. What makes us who we are is our differences and sometimes the people around us may not like it, but remember, this is not their life, it is your life.

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Of course, we should get suggestions about our lives from the people around us, but that doesn't mean they can interfere and control our lives.

You are what you are. Never let people crush you with their thoughts and words, and crush your dreams. When you want to do something different, someone around will definitely tell you that you shouldn't do it, do it. Maybe right, maybe wrong, but do it. You learn right from wrong by doing, not by being squeezed into certain patterns.