Do you ever wonder about what anyone feel or what they meant to say based on their body language, facial expression, eye contact, tone of their voice, gestures or what behavior they shown towards you or when they’re around you?
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Learn to Instantly Read Anyone
While no one can actually read other people’s mind and it’s really impossible to read them. There are some tricks that can help you get a better understanding of others and what they really mean to say.
Here are some tips that can help you read other people’s mind.
1. Be Open-Minded and Unbiased
If you want to read people, you should learn to be open-minded as well as learning how to be unbiased. To be open minded means to remove biases and prejudices from any situation. If a person share about his or her experiences in life, don’t compare their experiences to you. We’ve been through different kinds of experiences in our whole life and you should not let your emotions based on your past experiences take over your impressions and opinions on anyone.
If you judge people too quickly, you’re more prone in misreading them. We are likely to point out faults accusations to them, which is not We don’t really know someone until we get close to them and know them real well.
The key is to remain objective and receive information neutrally without distorting it.
2. Notice Body Language
A person’s posture says a lot about his or her attitude, it indicates nonverbal signals that they use to communicate their feelings and intentions. More than words, people expressing their feelings through their movements. These also include in trying to interpret their facial expressions and hand gestures. Facial expression there few common expressions that can give away. You will notice a person happiness when they’re smiling nicely and you can feel the happiness they felt, sadness when they give off unhappy and low energy vibes, anger when they’re clenching their jaws and grinding their teeth and most of all when eyebrows meet, surprise & fear they’re raising their eyebrows high, and lastly, the feeling of disgust.
The ability to understand and interpret the body language of a person can help you determine the negative feelings which they leave unspoken.
3. Pay Attention to Normal Behavior and Personality
We sometimes encounter person who look directly into our eyes while we are interacting with them, while some avoids eye contact and looking down the floor or at the ceiling or anywhere else during a conversation. It could totally means a lot if a person would do that, it could mean they’re anxious, nervous or just find relaxation looking somewhere else and it could be just normal for them.
We have our own unique manner and behavior that reflects to our own personality. And we should learn to understand that we people don’t have the same personalities. Maybe some but not all personalities are the same.
4. Notice Word and Tone of Voices
When you talk to someone , try to notice the terms and words they use and the tone of their voice during your conversations. When people talk while they are nervous or anxious they most likely to stutter, when they’re mad, they spoke words aggressively, and when they’re sad the volume of their voice is low.
You will know something is wrong when you notice a change in their tone. The tone of voice can give people a better understanding of what they mean and it shows how they feel.
5. Don’t make Assumptions
Keep in mind that assumptions is something you assume to be the case without proof and it will result to misunderstandings. When you easily make an assumptions without even knowing the person, it brings more trouble and can negatively affects your relationship with the person.
For instance, if you assume that someone close to you is angry, the whatever they say or do will seem like concealed anger to you. So it’s better not to jump in conclusions quickly.
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Author’s Note
I was only inspired to write this Article purely to write my own insight and give my own opinions and thoughts to help get a better understanding of others.
L.A
All of what you said is correct, Minsan din kasi kapag nag oobserve ako eh nagkakamali ako ng akala. Kaya minsan nakakapanakit ako . Salamat dito minsan sinasabihan ko din sarili ko pero nung binasa ko to eh finally, may nakapag sabi din ano🤦🏻♀️