Love is a complex mixed of emotions and strong feeling of warmth and respect for another person. From songs, poems and novels, love is subject for artwork since the beginning. Based on Science, love was already existed during ancient times and continued until today.
There are three phases of Love which are Like, Love and in Love. What are differences between these three phases, Liking can be describe as having a positive feeling towards someone and finding that person have the same vibes as you. We also experience closeness and warmth towards people we like. In addition, we are comfortable to share our problems to people that we like. Sometimes due to so much closure, we don't realize that we already love the person. We pretend to treat them as a friend, but deep inside there's a feeling in our heart compelling that we already feel love to person we like before.
When we love someone, we experience positive thoughts and emotions as when we like the person but there's a deep sense of understanding and care towards the person we love. It is the feeling like the world is spinning to those we loved, we put efforts andinvest anything to bloom what they called love. As a result, there is a satisfaction in ourselves and happiness evertime we feel love. In a matter of fact, we inspired to live if we feel ove towards person, if we are in state of love, we woke up everyday checking messages from person we love, starting our day with a smile because our loved once said sweet words, your whole day will be in good mood and we feel like we're floating in the air. We also, accomplished difficult task and problems if we are inspired by someone.
In terms of romantic relationship, those feeling of intimacy and attraction can be evolved in stage of inlove, this is a stage in which we already feel too much attraction to someone. It involves the feeling of sexual arousal and attraction, if we already in state of love, sometimes we feel too much affection that leads to aberration or mistakes. This is a common problem for the youth because they feel too much love, following their hearts and didn't think right actions. Once they feel boost of sexual arousal, some teenagers can't resist their desire to try the things that is only for adults. Teenagers are too much curious about everything that they want to try it even though there is a big consequences. They engage into situations that they will change their life forever.
In today's generation, love became popular and teenagers look love as a journey to discover self, some teenagers say, there is nothing wrong to have boyfriend and girlfriend because it will make the person matured enough to handle things. For me, this opinion was slightly correct but it has wide meaning. The main question here is, how love makes the person matured? If the person have lots of relationship in the past, is it what you called maturity? Yes, it is right that you'll learn if you experienced mistakes but the question is, did you learn from your past relationship? If yes, then why your in relationship again? Is it what you called maturity? Let me give you piece of advise, if you truly learned about love then why you still engage into it even though you know that you always feel broken. Do you call yourself matured in relationship? You know trying things about love is not bad, as long as you learn something and you'll never do it again but we can't avoid those type of people who didn't learn in the past.
It is one of common problem here on my country, many teenage girls got pregnant at young age because they assumed true love to their partner. On my opinion, for teenagers having sexual intercourse is the basis of love, it is sad to say that teenagers are uneducated when it comes about these serious thing. They engage into it without thinking the results, they just want to feel pleasure and discover new things. In the end, the result was made and it is consequences that they need to face. As a lesson for everyone, before we enter in a situation we must think first the consequences and outcome, remember to put your brain first before heart, there's a reason why the creator put the brain at the top and heart at the middle. Trying things is not bad as long as you know the limits and outcomes, have a good day everyone.
Love is blind... that's the problem here. They are soo blind that they doesn't even tell their boyfriend to use the thing😑😑