Happiness is a choice| self-explanation

• Date. November 5, 2021

• Cocogrey

Happiness is a Choice

Hello read cash fam, good morning, and have a blessed day ahead to all of you.

Well, for today's blog I just want to try to tell you about choosing mood, I'm not good at explanation about things but, I'll do my best to share this with a sense.

This is also a self-observation, and it was all my experience that ran on my thoughts today so I decided to write it just to publish today.

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Let's start

If you notice words are so powerful, right? Everything words have a negative thought that gives us instant unhappiness throughout all-day, you get mad, upset, and everything, and you get annoyed easily.

That is what we call a bad day, and I often felt that In our workplace wherever I go, since I am an introvert I don't want noise or repeated words when you are asking me something I don't want to insult even were friends I know when we say friends we're capable to say harsh words to each other but not that much especially insulting.

And when we get that feeling, the aura of our body changes, we get easily irritated. Perhaps because we believe that their words are so painful in fact, there is nothing with it.

Yes! People have their voice we can not blame anyone for what words they throw at us. We do the same thing we also throw words at anyone without knowing they get hurt too.

I realize that if we only choose to be happy, we will never get hurt by the words, we will never get mad, and everything. Choosing to be happy is an option.

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Special thanks to these people :)

For example my experience yesterday.

I've done that (picture above) just for three days, Not intentionally bragging to our boss, but she misinterpreted my words, she thinks that I am asking for increasing my salary since one of my workmates is already resigned.

She told us, that they have to increase our salary because of that with an insult sounds which makes me a little bit shy, and if I take their words as a painful one, maybe I get hurt or get mad at them, But I choose to ignore and try to response them with a smile and forget their words at the same time.

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Realization

I realized happiness is a choice, don't let others' voice gives us that kind of feeling, be hard-headed sometimes to cover your heart.

Emotions are so sensitive, we know that, but sometimes we have to learn how to counter harsh words by just giving them a positive action like a simple smile, and maintaining good friendliness to everyone and that how supposed to be.

CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.

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