Who Cheats the Most in a Relationship

This Is more of a controversial topic of discussion because both genders would not like to admit that their gender cheats more in relationships.

But really, let us be truthful to ourselves. Who cheats more in relationships? Is it the male? Or is it the female?

I have interviewed quite a number of friends about this issue and they have bared their thoughts.

The gents admitted honestly that though ladies do more of the cheating, sometimes, ladies push them into cheating on them by acts such as neglect, not showing them the love, care and affection they really needed but instead drive them away further into the arms of another woman.

Another reason they gave is nagging. Nobody likes a nag, not to talk more of a nagging partner -- someone they plan to spend the rest of their lives with. When wives/girlfriends nag, that act tends to push the man away further into the arms of another woman who would be more receptive of them.

But all in all, the gents unanimously agreed that women cheat more in relationships. Some even cited examples where some ladies cheated on their partners because the guy turned out to be a very calm guy who doesn't like conflicts. The ladies took advantage of their gentility and made them look stupid.

Now over to the ladies. The ladies all agreed that men cheat most of the time, and more often that they do. They argued that, that philandering habit in men have always been an inborn thing in every son of Adam.

They also argued that society is unforgiving towards women who have been caught cheating. Some ladies even cited examples of how biased society is by giving examples from the Holy Books. In the Bible, in the story of the adulteress, she was to be stoned to death, if not for the mercies and wisdom of Jesus Christ that saved her. Meanwhile, the man was left alone.

Also, according to Islamic laws, if an adulteress was caught in the act, she is to be stoned to death publicly.

They argued that men expects to be readily forgiven and accepted back when they are caught but these same men aren't so forgiving when they catch their spouse in the act. They would not want to have anything to do with that cheating partner again.

My opinion? In order for me to not be biased here, I would say that both genders cheat equally.