Tongues are like swords.

Hello everyone hope you all doing good, so we never think about this most of the time. so i decided to share with you all and discus about this topic. hope you all enjoy reading and liking to discuss about this, many times we don't think and we keep speaking which leads people hurt. so i would say to stay silent rather talking rude.

We never know some time or many times we hurt people direct or indirect way which is very bad for human kind, Our tongue is the most valuable thing in our life, sometimes we say rude and bad words and hurt people which leads negative thoughts between and a lot of times people consider it very sad.

Think before you speak

Speaking without thinking sometimes can hurt the other person's feelings and make him sad or upset and it might also ruin the relationship between you and him for even a little problem so thinking before speaking is the best thing you can possibly do to avoid misunderstandings and arguments between you and the other person. Speaking whatever comes to your mind without taking into consideration the feelings of the other person whether it is freedom of speech or something similar will surely hurt the other person and your opinion is not always accepted if it is going to hurt someone else, so speaking wisely and in a smart way will definitely help reduce the risk of arguments and sadness that can be caused to others. Avoid insulting people when you are mad and find solutions rather than problems and deal with the situation like a professional.

Do not speak while you're mad

Speaking anything while you are mad can definitely hurt the other person's feelings especially if this person is close to you, and arguing with your girlfriend or wife or husband for example or even friends or family can also make the situation even worst and can possibly lead you into toxic relationships and useless arguments that can be avoided, so when you're mad do not speak and focus on what you're doing rather than hurting the other person's feelings because when we are mad we tend to speak anything that comes to our brain whether we mean it in a good way or a bad way and most of the time we don't actually mean what we say as a bad thing but we say it because we are mad and then we regret it and we try to fix the problem and find solutions for it and it might take time to do that, so avoiding from the first place to not ruin the relationship between you and someone else is the best you can do. Silence is key when some situations regarding us gets stressed out.

Be positive

Always speak good and be positive to the other person and do not hurt them with your tongue because we all are people and we all have feelings and speaking good can make someone's day and can make him happier and maybe will make him your friend, so you can have one more friend added to your list. Being positive and contributing to the happiness of others will also make you happier and will make you feel content about yourself. Smiling towards people that cross your way on the street or in the bus can sometimes make them happy as well and can turn their life to the good side for making them know that there are people that care about them, and we are speaking about the good kind of smile and not the creepy smile that will scare the people off, right.

Finally I want to say that tongues are sharp and are like knives, you can stab someone with it without actually knowing, so always be careful before you speak. Thank you for reading, take care all.

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