1. The Build-up

Women need some time to really warm-up and get in the moment. Foreplay of all sorts is vital to any s3xual experience. Don't go straight for the destination, take her on the journey there.

Kiss her, slowly but passionately. Fight the urge to go into a rage of passion right away. Start slow and keep her wanting more. Run your hands along the curves of her body, kiss her neck, and caress her breasts.

When you start in a slow passion every touch inches her excitement closer to the edge. Then start kissing down her body making your way to her now very wet pu**y. Again WAIT. I know, what? You're excited, she's excited you're RIGHT THERE, but trust me on this. Kiss her thighs, breathe hot air on her cl!t. It'll send chills down her spine as she anticipates your touch.

2. What to Do With Your Tongue

Okay now you've got your girl all steamy and ready to be spoiled. What next?

Take your tongue and give a firm strong lick from the bottom up towards her cl!t, adding a little more pressure as you get to her cl!t. This is your sneak preview to her of what is to come (or should I say cu'm). At this point, you're going to want to find her cl!t with your tongue. Once you hit the spot, give some flicks of the tongue to it. You can do so in short quick motions, slower intimate strokes, or in a swirling motion. When you are sure that she's lost in it, then begin to suck her cl!t with whichever pressure amount she's enjoying most.

3. Now what? Is that it?

Well, it could be... orrrr you can bring your hands into the mix. Remember while the c!itoris is a huge erotic zone for orgasms, women are more likely to orgasm when you combine multiple erogenous zones.

If your head is still busy between her thighs, try with your fingers at the same time to finger her. The double stimulation of penetration and cl!toral play could be what pushes her orgasm to the next level. Additionally, you could stimulate the cl!toris even further with some g-spot stimulation. Put your finger inside her and curve your finger inwards towards you like a come here motion. That should strike a nerve.

Don't forget that you know your partner best. what and how they like it should be considered. We all have those weird fetish after all. do it! Your mouth may be busy but you still have two hands to pleasure her even more!

4. When to Stop

If you find it hard to tell when your woman's had an orgasm, here are a few tips: Pay attention to her. If her body responds when you touch her a certain way, do it again. If she seems to be getting close, don't stop! Repetition can sometimes be what's needed to push her to orgasm. Changing it up can throw her off and make her need to rebuild the orgasm. That being said, if she seems bored, do change it up.

How to know if she's having an orgasm:

   - Is she moaning louder or having a more expressive face?

   - Is her body having involuntary muscle spasms?

    -Does she seem out of breath and as if her body has just relaxed?

If so the answer is likely: yes! While orgasms don't happen every time for women and s3x can still be enjoyable without one, it's helpful to be in tune with your partner to notice when and if they are achieving orgasm. Once your partner orgasms, they may shift the energy that makes it clear she's done with you going downtown. But what if she doesn't? What if she's they multiple-orgasm type? That she's still holding you so tight? Well, then she's ready for round two!

Women can have multiple orgasms and have a shorter refractory period than men do. Also once the first orgasm is achieved, her body is already warmed up and is likely to achieve additional orgasms much easier. While it is 100 percent your choice whether or not to continue, pay attention to if that may be something your partner is trying to convey to you.