5. Build her confidence.
Many women feel self-conscious about a man going down on them even if it's pleasurable. The reason being? Discomforts of whether they smell good or not, whether they taste sweet or even if they've shaved good enough. the list goes on and on. One of the best things you can do to improve your sex life with your girl is to show her how much you love her body. Tell her she's beautiful, tell her you love making her feel good, tell her you enjoy going down on her. This will build trust, intimacy, and confidence in both of you.
6. Eye Contact
When you are feeding on her honeypot, look deep into his or her eyes. Eye contact is sexy. It portrays confidence and heightens the connection between the two of you.
7. Find the right position.
Whether it's her on her back or you on your back with her straddling your face, find the position(s) that works for you! Some work better than others. Sometimes a pillow to elevate the hips works nicely. Whatever it is, you want to make sure you are both physically comfortable for the best experience.
8. Don't assume reciprocation.
While you may really want your partner to go down on you too, that shouldn't be the reason you go down on them. Eat her out because your aim is to please and satisfy her. Do it because you want her to feel good and because you want to do it, then IF she wants to reciprocate and only if she does, she will. Don't pressure her to reciprocate because she owes you now. This will only make her associate you going down on her as something ultimately for YOU and could cause her to enjoy it less or want it less.
9. Ask her.
Don't be shy. When in doubt, ask! While it may feel awkward to talk about what you're doing in bed, there's no way to improve your sex life than to talk about it. Ask your partner if they like it when you do something. Ask them if they would like it better if you do it differently. It's okay if it's awkward at first. Embrace it and enjoy discovering each other's bodies together.
10. Do it more often.
Last but not least, go down on her more often. Your girl deserves to be spoiled, do it more often! Do it spontaneously, do it lovingly, just do it more! A lot of women say if they could change something about their sex life, it'd be receiving more oral s3x. If you can think and remember how great it feels to receive oral sex yourself, just imagine how eager your partner will be in your s3x life when you grant her that pleasure more often.