Be careful with your words `January 28, 2022` Why do some people want to hurt the feelings of others? In today's time, before you utter hurtful words to someone first think about what if you are in the position of the person who is uttering hurtful words, what would you feel? It's sad every time we heard the news that there is someone who did something bad because of bullying. I want to share an incident that happened near our barangay because of bullying and a disrespectful neighbor a 56-year-old man named Amancio tried to kill his neighbor in the reason that for over 2 years of being in the same area this time he could no longer stand all the nasty words they circulated against him, he allegedly endured it for over two years. It was Sunday afternoon while Amancio passing by the yard of his neighbor this kind of person was always telling him that he was bald, crazy, and some other harsh words which Amancio triggered his mind that this time he wants to do something revenge on what he's doing to him. Later Amancio goes home and he got a knife for he can't control the emotion and goes back to the yard of his neighbor who is a man between the age of 40 and stabbed for 3times luckily someone rescues the man and Amancio fled after the incident but later he was also caught up by the police. Furthermore, Amancio's statement from the police said he didn't regret what he was doing because it's been a long time since he endure all those hurtful words and that he deserve what he was doing. However, some of their neighbors besides Amancio it's because they know that he is a kind man but he only does it because he's being bullied by his disrespectful neighbor. Fortunately, the victim is being critical but luckily he is stable after a couple of days and hoping that it will give lessons to him to not underestimate one's ability. `Closing words`, Learn to respect other people so that no fraud happens we don't have the right to degrade someone else, don't utter hurtful words to avoid someone doing bad things against us. To my sponsor's thank you much know that im grateful upon seeing you in my sponsor's block. `And that's all for my today's write-ups I just want to thank everyone for always being there for me no matter what even there are times I can't catch up with all of you due to my busyness but I will guarantee you all that ill make sure I will read your writings.` Thank you for reading! *Lead image Unsplash*
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Sometimes no matter how good a person was , people will provoke his kindness by hurting them with their words.
Oo sis, kawawa nalang yung makagawa ng masama ng dahil sa mga taong walang magawa sa buhay kundi ang mangi alam sa buhay ng iba.
Wrong words or words in anger are like bullets. Destroys another persons feelings completely.
You're right my friend and after that, they regret it in the end but it's too late.
True sis. We shouldn't throwing some words to others. We know that it's a bad behavior but we must let ourselves to did it. We must think first before we throw some words that can hurt someone's feeling. We don't know them. Lesson learn, we should be respectful towards the others. Always remember there is always consequences for all the bad doings we had. We shouldn't bully the others. It's his consequence sis because he continued bullying that man for over 2 years, imagine that? It's really painful to that man who received a bullying, a hurtful words that's why he didn't control his emotion anymore.
Correct sis, may mga tao na akala nila okay lang pagsa litaan ng masasakit na akala hindi marunong gumanti.
Grabe kinimkim niya nu at di niya napigilan. Iba nagagawa ng napupuno na.
Oo nak lahat naman tayo pag naubos na pasensya talagang uusok yung ilong natin sa galit kaya dapat talaga maging aware tayo sa ating mga sinasabi sa kapwa natin.
Our mouth really is the most sinful part of our body. Gosh! Why people always wanted to hurt someone? Hmm
Yeah, and others, not aware of what they're doing wrong.
And that creates a bigger problem.
***Bisan pa man sa kabuotan sa tawo kung di na makaya ang mga gipang storya makabuhat jud sa ingon. Mao nga dapat Dili abusaran ang kamaayo, di porket walay sila'y nadungog nga storya, ila gihapon padayon nga dauton, muabot ang time na mapuno ang isa ka tawo, luoy sila. Tan awa unsa Iya napala anang pangdaot, na ospital na hinuon siya. Mao nga kinahanglan bantayan ang gipang storya laban sa atong isig ka tawo kay di tanan maka tolerate sa mga ingon anang batasan***
Sakto gyud dae bisan pag unsa nato ka hilumon pag maupos na atung pailob makahimu gyud sa dautan.
***Tama jud dae, same sa Amoa silingan didto sa amo gipuy an sa una. Tungod ra anang mga storya, nakapatay jud siya. Napuno na siya sa mga dautang storya nga nadungog***
Mao jud na kasagaran hinungdan dae daghan na jud ko nabalitaan nga tungod lang sa pang bully nakahimo jud og dautan ang usa ka tawo bisan pag unsa na siya ka mapahiubsanon moabot jud ang time nga dili na makaya.
***Lage dae Mao nga kung wala Gani maayong ma storya sa isig ka tawo, maghilom nalang jud para malikayan ng ingon anang panghitabo. Kay lisod ra ba kaayo pag kanang mga hilumon na mga tawo ang mabikil, makabuhat jud ug di maayo***
Mao jud nay nakalisud dae no ,kay ang maot nga estorya kusog kayu na maka apekto sa tao ba,unta wanay ing ana nga tao oy ,maghuna huna unta sa bation sa uban usa magpagawas og estorya ba.
Kasagaran jud akong nabasahan dae ingon ana jud nahitabo tungod sa pang bully maka himo nalang og dautan ang usa ka tawo.
The value of our word of mouth is that not everything can be said everywhere. Before we speak, we must think about what it means. Before we speak for this, we must first think about that.
Exactly my friend we must be very careful in everything we say to our fellow citizens.
Think manu times before we speak, it was biblical that our mouth has power.
Yes, indeed our words were a stand of what kind of person we are.
Ngano mn jud nga naay tawo nga ingon ana dae no. Di n lng mkapuyo ba. Ngeta jud samok nya krn tagam nuon.
Bisag Asa gyud dae naa gyud mga tawo nga garaon nagtoo og dili sila baw san.
Sissy, may mga tao kasi, di nag-iisip sa bandang huli, kaya ang pagsisisi nasahuli. Dahil Sa selos sila, kaya makapag-salita ng walang kabuluhan, nagdadala ng kalokohan. hindi maisip kung gaano kasakit o kung ano ang salita binitawan.
Tama sis kaya sana yung matitinong tao ay iwasan nalang pero kasi hindi tayo makakaiwas sa mga ganyan nasa paligid lang kasi natin ang mga taong yan.
One thing I hate most is using hurtful words on People. Maybe I was not brought up that way so it pains me much when one talks harshly not considering the depth of the the world.
Hindinsya maiiwasan ate, ewan bat may taong madalas magbato ng salita. May napanood ako sa fb na ganyan e, nagbato sya agad at nagbintang na kinuha wallet nya kuno, e nyayon yung matandang lalaki nagsalita na, "Pano nya kukunin wallet mo eg binigay mo saken kanina?". Nakakalungkot masyado hays
Gusto talaga mang lamang sa kapwa bunso , kawawa lang yung mga taong madadamay makagawa ng masama dahil sa mga taong ganyan.
one should learn how to put his tongue under control. It is also very important that we lshould also put our anger and emotions under control, it could cause and put us in greater trouble if we allowed it to overwhelm us.
Ang raming buhay ang nawala ng dahil kang jans a bullying or being rude talaga. I don't understand why people loves to tease and provoke someone but then act victim afterwards.