Sometimes we wonder if we could pull off a miracle or even become something that no one thinks we can be. These thoughts can steal our time if we fail to acknowledge the right stuff to put in place.
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The only way to do anything in life is to first change your mindset. Changing your mindset has a great influence on all the actions you may take.. Start telling yourself that you can do and accomplish anything through hard work, dedication and determination.
One important thing to learn, is to learn how to suffer. You must learn how to suffer. Those who suffer in attempt to complete a task almost always win. We have to accept our circumstances unconditionally. You have to be open minded to the point where you have accepted everything that's ever going to happen to you.
The worst can happen. You can't always foretell it but you can change it. Sometimes, problems are very difficult to overcome but you should have maximum courage to see it true. It may sick when beginning to overcome but beautiful and calming when you are done overcoming your problems.
I will advice you all not to include emotional turmoil to those problems you already have. They don't help you overcome the problems but rather worsen them and make them more difficult. It mostly prevents you from identifying the real problems.
You have to define your goals. Defining the life you are trying to build and having a real model for what you are doing is a great step to achieving the goals you want. Ask yourself tough questions like, "who am I?", "what kind of person do I want to be?" and more promising questions instead of always resting emotionally all the time. This helps you get over the Self-obsessed cycle.
No one can come to your house and make the arrangement they want without your permission. What I mean is that, you are the one in charge of your own self. You should know your mental aptitude and the way you are going to take up our life. Until you take control of your life, you are bound to achieving nothing.
The question is not about how worthy your goals are to achieve. The question is, How worthy are you to achieve your goals? Your goals don't choose you. You have to choose them.
You life is one-hundred percent your responsibility. You decide what happens in your life. You decide the people to let into your life and the people to depend on. Everything lies on you. Remember that transformation comes from a distressing dilemma. Transformation comes when your world is shaken up.
The part that shake up has to help you realise what we really need in life. You have got to unleash your full potentials. Life always gives up a test. You partaking in that test should help you realise the things you should make right and the things to maintain. Try not to give an excuse. Don't look at what someone is doing to determine your stand. That is the main reason why most of us fail.
We should know that,
Life is an examination. Many people fail trying to copy others not knowing that everyone has a different question paper.
We've got to believe in ourselves. You should love yourself. What ever good news you want to hear, tell it to yourself because you mind doesn't even know it. It doesn't care whether it is good or bad, true or false, right or wrong. Rule your mind. Take absolute control of what you think of. Grab opportunities and face the difficult moments. Know that in the middle of difficulties lie opportunities.
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It is still @ClDvor , be motivated.
Thanks for the tip