First of for let me describe happy family?
"A happy family is a family who spend time together, love and understand each other and get on well together. It's no good if you and your family don't get on. If this is the case then you must try and bond, getting to love each other and understand each other."
And again...Happy families share their emotions. This will help create a happy home because each family member will know how the others are feeling. If there is good news to be celebrated, it will be shared. ... Your family is your best support system – take advantage of that, and be there for them.
For my own side my family is the best, Because I was born in a family that understand there children and also teach them how to leave life, respect people, love one another, share ideas, know how to be contented with what they have and with many others things, ( Is true we have nothing but I like how we are doing things together in my family).
What says a happy home? A happy family of course!
To have a happy family has to do with every member of your family making important changes in their lifestyle and generating good habits within the home – and community. In turn, those good habits will make your kids feel happy and look forward to seeing you and your spouse at home – and you to feel happy having your kids and spouse at home at the end of the day.
Nonetheless, to have a happy family requires uplifting each other and boils down to how you treat each other. Conversely, having an unhappy family may lead to boredom, dysfunction, or your kids being more comfortable with an outsider over family.
However, if you feel your family doesn’t fit the picture of a happy family, then it’s not too late to inculcate these habits in their lifestyle. Here are 13 habits you should adopt to have a happy family
13 Secrets of Happy Families.
No. 1: Enjoy Each Other:- The essence of a happy family is that they truly uplift each other and that all comes down to how they treat each other.
No. 2: Swap Stories :- When your kids come home, ask them what happened in school and have a story for them, and also when you come home, your kids have to come first. "You must drop everything you are doing and always come home with something to share with your kids, whether a story or even the smallest vignette.
No. 3: Put the Marriage First :- Set a real example of love because the relationship and Marriage must come first.
No. 4: Break Bread Together :- Families that eat together, stay together. It's that simple. "Family dinners are essential," and "It's a time to connect." Have a minimum of four family dinners per week.
No. 5: Play Together :- Have one or two unifying activities that the family does together on a nightly basis.
No. 6: Put Family Before Friends :- In happy families, family comes before friends, "The camp counselor understands something that parents don't and that is that caring for kids also has to be fun. Give rules, but understand that kids need fun, too. When kids get bored and listless, they start looking for excitement out of the home and that is when friends become more important. Friendship is important, but subordinate to family."
No. 7: Limit Children's After-School Activities:- Today, growing numbers of kids are overscheduled and participate in six or seven after-school activities per week. The mother becomes a chauffer and the children are never home at the same time. This is not a recipe for a happy family, "If your kids grow up not knowing how to do ballet, they will be OK. No after-school activities is an extreme and too many activities is the other extreme, but moderation is where we should aim." Create your own after-school activities as a family, like For example, take your kids rollerblading, bike riding, or swimming after school as a family e.t.c.
No. 8: Build and Honor Rituals :- Families need rituals, Rituals can be religious, national, or even family-specific.
No. 9: Keep Your Voices Down :- Remember that children thrive on stability. "There has to be a calm environment at home," "Talk to your kids, give them strict rules, and punish children when necessary, but don't lose control and yell. If you yell at kids, that shows you are out of control and you create a nonpeaceful environment."
No. 10: Never Fight in Front of the Kids :- While some fighting or bickering may be inevitable, try to keep it away from the children, If your kids see you fight and argue, apologize and say, 'We are sorry you had to see it. Daddy and I just had a disagreement, but everything is OK now.
No. 11: Don't Work Too Much :- All work and no play does worse things to a family than make it dull. "If you are away all the time and don't prioritize your kids, your kids will internalize feelings of insecurity". They'll begin to believe that they're not valuable enough.
No. 12: Have Private Jokes :- Happy families have inside jokes, "Jokes and nicknames symbolize that this is a group that you belong to and serves as a shorthand for larger experiences.
No. 13: Communicate :- A happy family communicate with one another. "Frequently families are set up where everyone tells the mom and then the mom sends the message, but in a happy family, there are more flexible, open lines of communication."
In Conclusion
Happy Family is really good, because there is much joy in it especially when all of you understand yourselves. Again Always try to appreciate each other’s good qualities. Discuss with your family about your worries, and be happy that you have each other. Above all, always remember happy family is all about support, care, and value. Let your family inspire people around you by following these tips.
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The number quality of a happy family is togetherness as well as sharing. They do everything together and share everything. It's a beauty to behold