What is humility?
Humble people are respectful. They don't behave arrogantly and don't expect others to treat them like individuals. On the other hand, a humble person shows a genuine interest in others and is ready to learn from them.
Humility is sometimes mistaken for weakness. In fact, it is a force that helps people see their limitations and shortcomings.
WHY IS HUMILITY IMPORTANT?
Humility promotes relationships.In general, humble people are more connected to others and these people find it easier to relate to others and to the world in general.
Humility benefits your child's future. Being humble will help your child now and later in life, such as finding a job. The self-esteeming young man who ignores his disability is unlikely to do well in the interview. But the young man who really cares what the recruiter has to say is more likely to get the job.
How to learn humility
Promote a balanced view of yourself.
If someone thinks that he is something when he is nothing, he is mistaken.
Avoid deceptive maxims.
Phrases like "All your dreams can come true" and "You can be whatever you want" can sound inspirational, but they are often not true. Your children are more likely to be successful if they have reasonable goals and strive to achieve them.
Praise certain stocks.
Just telling a child that they are “amazing” does not encourage humility. Be precise.
Limit your child's use of social media.
Social media is often about self-promotion to convey a person's talents and accomplishments, as opposed to humility.
Encourage your child to apologize quickly.
Help your child spot and spot mistakes.
Promote gratitude.
Gratitude for creation.
Children should appreciate nature and how much we depend on it for survival. We need air to breathe, water to drink, and food to eat. Use these examples to inspire appreciation, admiration, and gratitude for the wonders of nature.
Gratitude for the people.
Remind your child that everyone is superior to them in one way or another, and instead of being jealous of other people's skills and abilities, they can learn from them.
Express gratitude.
Teach your children to say “thank you” not only with words, but with sincere thanks. The spirit of gratitude is called the foundation of humility.Teach your children that serving others is good.With humility, regard others as superior and pay attention not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Expect your child to do homework.
Removing your child from housework can help send the message: “You are very important to do this! Family responsibilities should come first, then play. Point out how housework benefits others and how others appreciate and respect you for doing it.
Emphasize that serving others is a privilege.
This is the main way to develop maturity. Encourage your child to find out who needs it. Talk to him about what he can do to help you. Praise and support your child when he serves others.