The withdrawal method can be very difficult, a lot of people who have tried it have testified how difficult it is to use this method. The fact that you have to pull out in the middle of the exercise, the pleasure, at the climax of the whole thing, that's a pain to do!
Some other people complain that they don't even know what the withdrawal method is and they don't know how to practice it. That's why I'm here today, I'm going to share some basic steps in how you can achieve huge success within the shortest possible period.
Withdrawal must be achieved!
The first thing to consider here is if "the patient" recognizes that they have a problem and want it solved, because if they don't know that they have a problem they won't take the healing process seriously
Addiction is a very serious disease that almost every human being on earth suffers from; everyone is addicted to one thing or the other but some people are so comfortable with their addiction that they don't see it as a problem therefore they don't see any need to withdraw
Below are some basic steps to take if you want to withdraw from something you're addicted to especially drugs and other harmful substance:
1. Knowing you're addicted:
the first and most important step towards a successful withdrawal is knowing you're addicted. When you know you're addicted it will become easier to move to the next step, which is
2. Seeing it as a problem:
No matter how bad or strong the addiction is if the victim doesn't see it as a problem, they can never be open to withdrawal. One has to know what they are addicted to and also know that it's a problem that needs to be solved
3. Getting uncomfortable:
once the first and second steps are achieved, the third step follows automatically. When the addict knows they are addicted to a bad thing, they'll always feel bad after indulging in it. They'll feel shy to do it in the presence of their friends who are not addicted to the same thing for fear of stigma
4. Withdraw from fellow addicts:
by the time the victim begins to get uncomfortable around their "normal" friends, the way they live their lives freely without fear or shame they too would want to feel free. The only thing that can draw them back is their fellow addicts who, rather than criticize them, will even hail them because they're all in the same game together. Withdraw gradually from those who support the addiction
5. Move and stay more with none addicts:
both withdrawing from fellow addicts and staying more with none addicts are very difficult because both makes the addict uncomfortable because they get "temporal" joy and sense of belonging when they stay with fellow addicts, they feel more at home and comfortable so withdrawing from them is difficult
on the other hand, non addicts will make the addict feel uncomfortable because they can't operate freely around them, they sometimes feel they don't being there because they don't understand. A lot of strange and unacceptable feelings will go on in their mind but they have to endure and stay. The process of withdrawal is not easy, it comes with a lot of sacrifices...
to be continued...