Hatred is an unhealthy feeling that we all know and we have felt it one time or the other.
We may have felt it either for the wrong person or right person; is there really a right person? It's left for you to answer
Hatred in its own is very vast if we want to go into it but that's not what I'm looking at today.
I want to call our attention to that hatred we feel for someone sometimes that you can't even justify.
When you have this hatred in you and someone asks you, "why do you hate this person so much?" And you say, "I just don't know why, but I hate them!"
That kind of hatred is a KILLER. Mark my words, that kind of hatred can consume you gradually and you won't even know it until you're gone!
When you're guilty of this kind of hatred, there's always a tendency that you know why you hate the "victim" in question but you can't say it out because your reasons are just crazy and unjustifiable and you can only say it to yourself
When you hate someone because she's more beautiful than you or because people love her more than they love you, or you hate because he is richer or more favoured than you, a lot of stupid reasons!
This kind of hatred if not checked kills silently from inside and nobody will know except the hater that will be feeling the pain but they won't know that they're being consumed
Do not fall a victim. Even if you notice that you're having it, try and suppress it by looking out for some positive things about the victim because this hatred will only highlight people's negativity to you and hide the positive
Assure yourself that you're also good in your own area because sometimes inferiority complex can also trigger that hatred.
Tell yourself that you're better than that person in your own area and you'll see the hatred disappear
Try to move close to the person, interact with them. Rather than hate them from a distance you can bring them close and even learn one or two things from them, that way you would have grown more in knowledge and also saved yourself from that unhealthy kind of hatred
Don't let your hatred for someone consume you even when they don't know you exist, you'll only be hurting yourself. Love instead, it costs nothing to love
