Relationship goals
What's a relationship?
I'm sure the above question will shock you, because you can't even define relationship in your own simple terms. Hahahaha.
You've been in different relationships and are still in relationship with people but you can't define it in your own words. It's a problem.
It shows you don't know what you're into and if you don't know about something you definitely won't know the value and consequently won't know how to manage or handle them. Simple! It's not rocket science
Relationship is a mutual thing, it's not an "obligation" for one person to the other. For any relationship to thrive, both parties must care for the other person like it's their responsibility to do that alone
Nothing kills relationships more than expectations. To enjoy your relationship, don't always expect your partner to do one thing or give the other thing to you all the time. See yourself as the one shouldered with the responsibility to do the giving and doings
In every relationship, it's only natural for one party to love the other more, and the person that is loved more is always tempted to expect more from their partner and if the partner doesn't measure up, the love starts dwindling and if nothing is done to remedy it, love dies.
Resist that temptation to expect more from your partner
Have something doing in your relationship, don't just fold your arms and wait for the other person to do everything. Even if they fail in their own part, remind them! don't assume that they didn't want to do it, people forget things.
Anything else can make someone not to do what they're supposed to do when they're supposed to do them
Relationship between two partners is like a bicycle; for the movement to continue smoothly, the pedal on each side must be pressed and at the right time. If not, the movement will be affected
Too much expectations in a relationship kills the relationship. Whenever you're tempted to expect much from your partner, be the one to do that which you expect them to do, it won't take anything from you
Take time to nurture your relationship, it's not meant for one person alone to build
On point.