Let the end decide

How "controversial" are you?

Sometimes people don't want to come to terms with the fact that everyone is not the same and can not do things the same way

Most times people expect everybody to do things the conventional way, they expect everybody to use the same method, the universally accepted method of doing things

Alas! If you don't do things the same way every other person is doing it, people begin to see you as a failure even before seeing your end result

They want you to do it like them, but they seem to forget you're not them, do your things the way you feel is best for you and not the way it feels good to others because you're not others. 

You know yourself more than them, so don't allow them influence you or detect for you

I don't know who need to hear this; stop compelling people to do things your way, if you suggest your way and they don't want it, just let them be! Let them do it their own unique way

There's a saying that "a man is thought mad, by those who do not hear the sound of the music he is dancing to"

Don't assume that someone will fail in their venture just because he didn't follow the conventional way, be patient and allow them to arrive before you judge; the end of it all will tell whether you were right or wrong

If your path is good for you, follow it and allow others to follow theirs I it feels right for them. 

However, if you feel so convinced that your own path is the best and the other persons' part is wrong, tell them about it.

 If they accept, fine. But if they don't accept, allow them to follow their own path and wait for them at the finish line

Only the end will tell... At the end we'll all know who is right and who isn't

At the end, those that were right will continue on their right path, while those on the wrong will take corrections if they can and if they want to because life is all about choices

Let the end be the judge

Focus on your lane and be the best you can

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