You know, some things in life are better left unsaid. There are some things we know that we should just keep to ourselves and simply observe how things go
Wisdom, they say, is profitable to direct. There is wisdom in some spoken words but sometimes there's more wisdom in knowing what to say and not saying it
Everybody has one thing or the other to say at any given time but only the wise know when and how to talk
Recently, I read about a news on the internet about a neigbour that continued disturbing a young man, asking him when he would get married; the young man kept warning her to stop asking him
The lady kept embarrassing the young man even in the public, telling him to go and marry. The young man couldn't take it anymore, he attacked the nosey neighbour and she died in the process
That was really gross and bad of the young man to have attacked his neighbour. No amount of provocation justifies taking a life. The young man should have controlled his emotions
In the other hand, the nosey neighbour was not wise enough to know her boundaries in her neighbors life and private affairs. Everybody has their lives to live and they're entitled to live their life the way they want provided they don't get in anybody's way
People should learn to mind their business and know their boundaries in other people's affairs especially when it's obvious that people want to keep their affairs private. You don't have to keep pushing, it can be so annoying and discomforting
Don't go into people's private lives if they don't want to talk about it. Why aren't you married? Why are you looking so big now? Do you have kids?; questions like these and many others are meant to be private and personal. If people want to talk about them, let them be the one to bring it up first, if they don't, just let it be because it's their private life
Never ask a man why he isn't married, that question can be so annoying to some men especially when they're struggling to meet up in life, it could even lead some to depression.
Never tell a lady that she has put on so much weight, she knows that already and if she wanted your opinion or advice she would be the one to tell you and not the other way round
Quit being so nosey, intruding into other people's lives and privacy. Everyone is entitles to their private life. Let them be
