Dangerous pangs of loneliness
There's a big difference between loneliness and being alone but some people often confuse the two. One is the mother of inventions while the other is the mother of ruin and destruction
It's very important in life to make out time daily no matter how little, to be alone. Being alone gives one the opportunity to think and reminisce about the past, make corrections where necessary and possible; it also helps one to make plans about their future
It's very important that we deliberately make out time everyday to be alone, if we can do this twice a day, preferably once in the morning and once in the evening it'd be very nice.
In the morning, to make plans for the day and all that has to be done; in the evening, to evaluate everything that happened during the day and know the way forward and improve more. This will help one grow and improve more
When one is alone on purpose, they get new ideas, new inspirations and they feel energized, happy and fulfilled after their time alone. Being alone in your closet is a place of new births.
When you're alone, you're alone and you don't need anyone else around to distract you. Any other presence can distract you from achieving the aim when you're alone so you need to be alone
However, never allow yourself to be lonely because unlike being alone, which gives birth to new life and ideas, loneliness destroys life and ideas.
Sometimes people don't know the difference between being alone and loneliness, loneliness can lead to regrets, anger, weakness of the mind and the worst of all, depression.
Knowing the difference between being alone and loneliness will help you to create one and eliminate the other for your own good!
The major difference between the two is that, being alone is when you set yourself aside from other people and things just to be with your thoughts. But loneliness is when you find yourself "alone" most times against your own wish
Being alone means that you don't need people around you, you might have people around but you set yourself aside from them to be alone. But being lonely is when you're forced to "be alone" against your wish
Being lonely doesn't necessary mean absence of people around you, you could have millions of people around you and still be lonely, this is a very bad omen and should be avoided by every means possible
Never allow your case get to a point that you're lonely, get someone and talk to or find something doing to keep you busy. Say no to loneliness
