Many psychologists and theories came up with different stages in life. And they mostly touch an aspect of behaviors that is peculiar with each stage and most at times those observations truly fit the stages they claim to discover. I often got lost at one stage or the other when trying to learnt it if not only for my course work but also for my personal knowledge as a psychology class student.
But I love observing life in it's simplest perspectives. Theories may analyse life in so many different stages and categories but in all these stages I have the urging to properly present the structural definition of life from it's genesis to the end. The fact of all the matters is that all these theories leads to one conclusion. But before a conclusion is reached, many things usually go into it, and sometimes too many things to count. But I believe my writings on the the topic " The third angle of the triangle burden of life " will absolve all the complicated thought you have about life in general, and this might a long way create beautiful effects in your decision making for a better life and for that matter helping you to a good resolution of life at the end of the day. To be continued:
Don't worry, I am not leaving it undone. I will write on it to it's conclusion.
Now the main point.
Now life in it's overall analysis has a structural definition which mostly prompts theorists to be able to come out with diversified stages as history unfold. But in my close observation as I begin to delve into the simplicity of life, I can see the simple pictorial presentation of life which does not call for any microscopic aptitude before someone can understand. So the topic 'The third angle of the triangle burden of life' is one of the very one that is coming to throw light in this wonderful and simple explanation of life. It is only coming to throw light on by creating only a theoretical impact on individual but also the practical impact.
Now life evolve through stages, but these stages has an angular presentation as in AB, BC and CA. And in this, we can find our triangle. And this presentation is only mathematical in sense, but what it is just trying to say is that life has three stages and these three stages are interconnected to each other. So now what the stages? We have the childhood stage, adulthood stage and the old age stage. So the working of all the three stages, and how these stages affect one another is what is bringing about the triangle burden.
Now stage 1: Childhood stage. At this stage, life curve rises from one point of the triangle from point A going to point B. Here, you are new to the world and you enjoy everything without working for it, your parents are responsible for your everything, like food, clothing, shelter, health and training. At this stage you are not accountable of anything. Now at this stage, you are trained to prepare for adulthood. Parents do this by giving the children the best education, teach them good manners, and how to manage their home and others. So a successful childhood stage is good sign of getting to a successful adulthood, and failure at this stage is also a bad sign of a failing adulthood. So how the performance of one stage affect the other stage is called the cumulative effect. Many people grossly failed the childhood stage and it has led to a total chaos in their entire life. So handling the childhood stage successfully is a necessary ingredient if we want our society to have responsible adult.
Stage 2: adulthood, at this stage, life curve is at the peak and you are at point B. Here, you are responsible for your own life, your home, your business and also you are given a special responsibility in the society , you are also responsible for training other children for a successful adulthood and the last of all preparing for a successful old age stage. Many who failed at this stage are those didn't do well at the childhood stage. And these people will not also train or impact those that at the childhood stage well for a successful adulthood. And at this time they can not properly prepare for old age and that is a bad cumulative effect.
Stage 3: Old age. At this stage, the life curve falls from point B to point C. So what actually happens here?. You can see that the life curve finally is at the same level as point A which is the childhood stage AB. But not at the same point. At this point though they are at the same level as point A which is the childhood stage, the are not seen as children anymore, they are not taken care of, and they are even made to be accountable for their actions on the life curve. They wish so far as they are not having strength anymore, they should have been taken care of like children but it is not so.
This is the stages regrets come in if they couldn't pass through the adulthood stage well. They are blamed for their inactions on the life curve, and they wish they become children to amend their ways, and they make bad resolution about their life. So the third angle burden of life, is when they understand their mistakes that they committed all their lifetime and yet their is no way to change it and start life new. And the pain from this linger in their memories as they wait anxiously for their grave finally.
I believed this simple presentation will quicken us to amend our mistakes and prepare for a great future. Life curve is moving, study it.