Most guys today are in a relationship without understanding the psychology of women. All women are the same in terms of their making and If you understand their components psychology, you will be lovable. Someone said to me some years ago that " you used magic on my sister," but I said is not true. Another said " you are a ladies guy" but I said that's not true. I have never experience heartbreak in my life. Not even any of my relationships. We do part on mutual grounds.
Most times we clamour on the issue of submission a lot, but if you understand the key, any lady will be submissive to you. Money is not what makes ladies submissive. And any lady can be submissive to you if you understand the psychology. Ladies naturally loves to be identify with a star, a leader, a guardian, a visionary, a man of influence, a lover of God, a wise man. A man who is wealthy. If you are not in any of these categories, you are missing one of the keys of attraction. This is not my focus for today.
Below are some of the stuff you must learn about women as a man.
1.*She loves attention* you must learn to give her attention always. One of the ways ladies generally perceived love is through attention.
2. *She loves beautiful words; praises and adornment* : ladies loves admiration. They want you to always comment on their dress, their hairstyle, their looks etc. Even if she is not good looking, you must learn to tell her the opposite. Tell her what she always want to hear. Lol.
3. *Never shout at a woman in public*: must ladies generally have a low self esteem, and this is why most times they hardly withstand public criticism. A lady can take her life if her top secret is expose to the public. As men, we must learn always not to shout at our Ladies at all cost. They consider it as embarrassment.
4. *She always want you to listen:* Women generally want you to give them attention even if what they have nothing to say or what they are saying is less important to you. Ladies don't want to share you with any other. Have you ever being online, and she sent you a message without your quick response? She will attribute it to something else. Because she believes that she must be your major priority not even considering situations and circumstances.
5. *She want you to be patient with her always* : ladies are not always patient with men but they want men to be patient with them always. If you are not patient, you can't walk with a woman. If you ask her, haven't I warn you of this? She will say "give more time". It takes time to change a woman, this is why you must not be tired of talking.
6. *She want a builder and not a condemner* : No body want a condemner. We must learn to appreciate every of their little efforts and contributions. Their will be an extinction of your desired traits if you are always in the business of condemning her. Be a builder and not a condemner. Condemnation kills rather than build.
7. *Don't expose her weakness in public:* you must learn to cover her weakness in public as mentioned earlier.
8. *She want you to be her friend:* no lady want to date a man that is bossy. You must learn to bring your self so low to be able to effectively walk with a lady. She want a friend and not just a lover. She want someone she can always crack jokes with without fear. Some one she can easily relate with.
9. *She loves a giver* : stingy people Will always find it difficult walking with a lady. A lady will be willing to give you her all, if only she realize that you are not withholding anything from her. If you want more from a woman, give her more. What you give to them is what you will get in return.
10. *She want a standby*: ladies generally loves someone who is a standby. Someone that can follow them to anywhere they are going. If you are not in the business of accompanying your lady, very soon, her escort will take your place.
11. *She wants a father* : no matter how she misbehave, you must learn to counsel her. Lead her in the ways of righteousness. Rebuke her and nurture her to become the woman you want her to be.
12. *She want you to look good always.* They are moved by what they see. Don't join those who say your dressing does not matter. What matter most is your inner man. Yes is true, but you can't keep your Lady's gaze on you if you are not always dressing in a good manner. Let's learn to shun oversized wears and shoes. Dress smart. Look good always.
13. *She want a person of understanding:* the first three month of your dealing with a woman must be your months of study. These should be period of you examining her thoroughly in order to know how to deal with her. Understanding is a vital key to the success of a home. You must understand when to correct her and when not. You must understand when you should speak and when you should not. You must understand when you should react and when you shouldn't.
May the Lord grant us understanding in Jesus name.