The advantages of living with my inlaws

I 've been sharing here many times about my life ,how it is living in one roof with my inlaws.Its unfair if I will not share those advantages of living with them.Hmm ,let be fair to them hihi.

Many of you here known about why we are staying at my inlaws house.Its not easy to live with them but I need to give more patience ,adjust everything coz its not our own house meaning their rules should be followed not ours.A lot of times I felt upset ,exhausted but I need to endure all of it since we don't have our own.But despite of having that disavantages theres still some advantages for the both of us.

They helped me nursing and raising my kids

My mother in-law(mama) loves her grand children so much ,though a lot of times that I does'nt like how she spoiled my kids but later on I understand.

Since then ,after I gave birth to them ,she always helped to take care of them ,she gave some advices when I was a first time mom and she always there everytime my baby us crying.

Though she is already old but she still trying to help me,I know she's not that strong as before but then she's there to help me.

When I had a lot of things to do ,sometimes she offered to take care of my baby.But not all the time haha but still she thinking to help me.Maybe now that my kids are growing ,kaya hindi na niya masyadong iniisip na may gagawin ako ,sinong magbabantay kasi malalaki na but my 2 year old little boy ay hindi pa yan maiwa iwan kasi kahit ano nalang hinahawakan at nilalaro.And I scared kasi mababa lang yung mga eletric outlets sa bahay.

Everytime I scolded my kids ,she's there to comfort them though sometimes she's like pushing my kids to get mad at me but I know she just wanna protect her grandchildren.Everytime my kids are crying for some reasons ,she's got hurriedly to check what was happening to my kids.

Helping me in our financial needs

During our petsa de peligro days ,thats the time that I asked mama if what would be our viand ,sometimes I borrowed money from her.

She had a monthly allowance from her grandchild who us working in manila now and her daughter also who is in hongkong .

Everytime we are running out of budget ,I run to mama as I know that she had money.But if I had a money ,I did'nt disturb her for what would be our viand.Ako lang yung mag iisip ,bibili at magluluto but there are sometimes talaga na walang wala na ako ,saka na ako lumalapit sa kanya.

Aside of her and my father inlaw ,andito din isa kong bayaw kasama namin sa pagkain.Together with my kids and husband ,7 kaming kakain sa bahay.Sometimes,my sister in-law(the house owner)ay magbibigay naman ng pang ulam everytime magpapadala siya.

Kaya minsan talaga ,nauubosan ako kaya kay mama ako tatakbo for our viand.

Closing thought!

It may have an advantages but it does'nt mean that we don't have to live separate to them.As a couple with kids ,we need to live separately and have our own ,for us to know and to learn what the marriage life is.

We may have some negative experiences ,we felt upsets to each other but the end of the day ,we are a family we should adjust the both of us ,balance treatment to have a peaceful living.

And that would be all ,thanks for reading!