Having a family is a responsibility but all people see is the hardship and neglect of the pleasure achieved as you fulfill the role of a parent. We all have different responsibilities in life, just different types and we have different perspectives on these roles, it just so happens that the interpretation of many people in married life is purely a complaint because most of those who suffer now has a family and many children. I think these people are doing just that the reason for early marriage or early childbirth may be one of the reasons but it is not a valid reason to use excuses to blame others for not ascending. Whether you are single or married no one chooses poverty not in the state whether you are married or not in the development process, there are many aspects that need to be studied so that we can advance and I will not discuss it in this article. My point is that we should not blame our family if we are having a hard time, nor should we blame a baby for the trials that will come in our lives so it should not come to the point of taking his life. Marriage is not the end of the happiness of a single life it is an extension of many more good times and adventures, meaning more fun, more colorful.