"Friend Zone", Thin Boundary Between Friends and Love

The friend zone is a more modern term, probably used to sound more like "Statusless Relationships." "Friends But Friendly", Every young soul usually feels in this zone. The zone where there is a feeling of comfort when these two teenagers are friends or friends but the seeds of love appear. In fact, the Friend Zone is a place where one party expects a special and romantic relationship, but the second does not (usually). It's a natural thing in everyone so that "he" who is also your friend can be yours. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have.

Okay, back to the main topic of the Friend Zone. This case often lasts a long time in the story of our lives, if you enjoy too much and are afraid to get out of your comfort zone. How long do you want? Before coming to this, you should understand and recognize the wind direction that brings you to the Friend Zone.

Things that are not impossible in creating a Friend Zone;

1. Starting from a meeting with him that happens very routinely.

2. In addition to meeting face-to-face often, you often meet through communication networks such as; telephone, SMS, chat (BBM, whatsapp, line, cocoatalk, wechat, yahoomessenger).

3. After often communicating through the networks mentioned earlier, when you lose contact you feel lost and definitely start looking for his attention. (beware, this leads to the climax of the Friend Zone).

This is the most important "something", you feel comfortable around him and time seems to pass quickly when you are talking to him.

Before and after, for sure you are stuck in this zone. Already soaked in this pool of friendship. You have to choose between avoidance or commitment. Method? If circumstances have forced your restless feelings, there is only one thing you can do. TO BE HONEST. Tell your friend the truth about how you feel, how you feel. Because one sentence even one word that comes out of honesty will definitely give a DEFINITE answer.

(Just an opinion and a small note. Without offending anyone. Happy reading)