Some things are better left unsaid

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2 years ago

It is absolutely correct to state that some things are better left unsaid. After all, we never know when we might say something that we will come to regret for the rest of our lives.

There is nothing in this world that allows you to take back words that you have spoken. In that circumstance, aside from regretting our actions that got us into difficulty, what else can we do?

We say something in amusement, yet it could cause harm to someone else, which we never consider. Oftentimes, we say hurtful things about someone we don't even know well, but when we later find out about it, we can't do much to prevent the unpleasant situation that has arisen as a result.

Today, many individuals fall in love in a very short period of time, and without even knowing anything about that person, they approach her or him and want to be with them, which may cause them to separate at a young stage of their relationship. Later on, they end up treating each other as complete strangers, which makes you realize that it would have been better if you had never said anything at all.

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Revealing your actual feelings to someone whom you know will strive to understand what you're saying is a nice feeling when you are feeling down. However, revealing your secrets would not be beneficial to your own mental health if you are dealing with someone who typically doesn't admit their mistakes, who will immediately deny if you confront them about something even if you have evidence to the contrary, who will try to change the subject and gaslight you.

I'm privy to information about other people that I will never share. This is primarily due to the fact that if those secrets were revealed, they would only cause pain that could never be adequately qualified or resolved. Make certain that the words you are withholding are truly out of concern for others and not to absolve you of your responsibilities. Make sure also that your unpoken words are not providing you with a luxury at the expense of someone else

There are really cases where some things are best left unsaid because saying it to someone who is not trustworthy enough, would be more detrimental to your mental health rather than beneficial which you will only notice when everything is in the proper position and at the appropriate time

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